Before I continue, many thanks on the responses! All are very helpful. I had an inkling that I should be playing to realism in variation, but I wasn't sure about how well that works as Caldari.
Specific replies:
... And abhoring the militia wars isn't bad unless you do it for moral reasons rather than pragmatic business ones, if so then other Caldari will find you different but won't look down on you too much for it. ...
I hope this is helpful and I'm not wildly ill-informed about what kind of answers you want.
The reasons for abhoring the militia is mostly due to the fact that Ishukone loyalists have no need to contribute to the militia.
Ishukone owns nothing in Black Rise (note the lack of stations), and can conduct their business perfectly in Intaki under either occupation. There's no reason for an Ishukone loyalist to fight and die for other corporations. She answers the war cries of "Gallente are invading Caldari space!!!!" with "No, just
your corporation's space. Not Ishukone's."
... so if she's extremely successful and popular she could probably be living and voting in Gallente space and still be looked up to by the other Caldari. ...
She does not vote in Gallente space.
Despite her automatic citizenship by marrying Erys, she has redirected all political stuff from the Fed right to the junk mail bin. She absolutely refuses to 'take part' in the Federation outside her marriage. She tends to justify this with alternating excuses of paranoia or disgust, depending on whether she's fought with another State or Federation loyalist most recently.
<Silliness and mischats>
Yes, that is definitely OOC bleedover, and eventual exhaustion with playing the super serious angle. Because I'm not sure I could break that habit even if I tried, and at least a significant portion of the community doesn't mind it, I'm inclined to just let it continue.
I am however attempting to provide a more natural shift into joking moods, so it's not so jarring. I tend to do this either by slowly building into it, or by waiting in silence for a while before speaking up again with the jokes.
... huhwha, goes the Hyasyoda exec? Definite demerit-and-no-more-promotions from the culturally conservative corp; oh wait, she's Ishu!...
She was born and raised Hyasyoda, not Ishukone. She only turned Ishukone when she joined I-RED. As explained below, this has had unforseen consequences in how she as developed as a person.
Now, replying to all the posts here at once. I think I just tend to slam on the brakes when I hear (or think I hear) that she isn't very Caldari. My goal isn't to play the ultimate Caldari, and it never was.
My goal is actually to play a believable Caldari, one who could fit in with the State while still not being a monochrome corporate drone. I wanted people to say, "Oh so that's what the Caldari are really like..." On the outside, she would appear to be Caldari exemplar, but on the inside she turns out to have layers upon layers of secrets both good and bad.
Part of the fun in playing Kat is that she has plenty of skeletons in her closet. If the closet door is wide open and everyone can see them, it ruins the effect. The intent isn't to show everyone what her skeletons are. The intent is to show everyone what a struggling Caldari woman with issues looks like on the outside. The intent is to play a troubled Caldari character who is trying to balance her traditionalist Hyasyoda expectations with her selfish and guilty desires in an environment where there is almost no oversight and boundless personal freedom.
Being a capsuleer is a HUGE difference in the amount of control. Suddenly Big Brother isn't there anymore. Nobody is watching you. Your phones aren't tapped, your bank accounts can't be siezed, you're immune to prosecution, you don't even
need the State anymore. Suddenly you've got all this money and power and freedom, and you're talking with dirty
jaijii on a regular basis, learning things the State would normally censor. It would take something remarkable to not lose yourself in the culture shock and confusion. Only the most powerful indoctrination would keep you in check. It's like a North Korean suddenly moving to the United States in their early twenties - do you really think they would still act completely North Korean after a few years?
The struggle this eventually presents is - how subtle is it? How obvious is it? Did I go too far with portraying her slow transition into a more worldly attitude and lifestyle? Has she lost her roots, or is she still firmly planted in State tradition? This is the crux of my RP difficulties, is handling this transition as believably and effectively as possible without it being a jarring contradiction in presentations.