Not sure why so much this sort of mary sue stuff has been spouted out lately.
"Mary Sue?"
... I'm not quite clear on why you think this term applies. A Mary Sue is an overly-perfect, usually avatar character inserted by someone who wants to create a character everybody will love/admire. It rarely works as intended, but not everyone views their use 100% unsympathetically.
http://www.girlgeniusonline.com/comic.php?date=20051212From where I sit, they're just ... kind of sad, reflecting a mind that longs for a little more swirl and dazzle in the world, and, ideally, to be at the center of that swirl and dazzle.
The Gallente appear to believe in some sort of universal human rights; the Caldari apparently don't. This does not mean that the Gallente cannot be ruthless; it means that they are, perhaps, less inclined to
make a virtue out of it. When the Gallente go overboard, it seems to be from an excess of passion-- publicly mutating people to death after a cursory trial as punishment for treason, for example.
http://community.eveonline.com/background/potw/default.asp?cid=25-12-08-a. The Caldari can certainly be passionate, but they tend to at least approach conquest practically.
http://community.eveonline.com/background/potw/default.asp?cid=27-07-09Well, mostly.
http://community.eveonline.com/background/potw/default.asp?cid=07-09-09I don't care all that much for Tony G; his grasp of canonical niceties is slippery, at best, but I did like his portrayal of Caldari cultural values in "Ruthless." Otherwise, I tend to ignore his work: he apparently developed a taste for melodrama around TEA, which I view as unforgivable in anyone who claims to be writing historical backstory for a "real-ish" world. Combined with his inability to keep track of which bit of history applies to which ship ... well, let's just say that if he's your source, we may as well be arguing from different universes.
Much of what I say is extrapolation, based on certain bits of fic and tidbits found in canon. Some bits are highly canonical, such as the Caldari ideal of death before dishonor-- or failure.
http://community.eveonline.com/background/potw/default.asp?cid=30-11-09;
http://community.eveonline.com/background/potw/default.asp?cid=aug01. Some bits are more tentative: there's little in canon connecting Caldari Prime's cold climate directly to Caldari culture, but there are indications.
http://community.eveonline.com/background/potw/default.asp?cid=28-04-06.
A particularly powerful thread in canonical Caldari culture is simply this: a desire not to be Gallentean, or to resemble them. One of the key historical dates mentioned on the Caldari timeline is 22631 AD, the year the Cultural Deliverance Society arrived on Caldari Prime, presumably to "help" the poor, primative Caldari.
http://community.eveonline.com/races/caldari_timeline.aspThe Caldari were uplifted by the Gallente. You can kinda see how the Caldari would never quite have lived that down in their own proud minds.
So-- the Caldari were (1) inhabitants of a chilly-ass world (2) uplifted by their more temperate-clime neighbors who (3) believe in universal human rights, a concept the Caldari are not precisely down with (
http://community.eveonline.com/background/potw/default.asp?cid=21-04-08), and (4) saw (and see) the Caldari as barbarians. Queue massive, entrenched inferiority complex, an itch that the Caldari collectively choose to scratch most any time they can.
Ergo, the Caldari like to see themselves as realistic, practical, and emphatically NOT Gallente while the Gallente tend to see them as cold-blooded, barbaric, and treacherous (and, from what I can tell, tend not to measure themselves against the Caldari). "Cold and calculating" versus "squeamish and irrational" is a gross overgeneralization, but also, I think, an accurate summation of the ways the two societies tend to see one another. An irony I particularly enjoy is that there's every indication that the Caldari mostly want the Gallente not to meddle in their internal affairs while simultaneously being, themselves, arguably the most meddlesome of the four empires (a fact my character likes to ignore/forget).
Finally, my analysis of "honor" versus "morality" is intentionally from the perspective of someone valuing "honor" more highly. That is, after all, the perspective of my character, whose cultural viewpoint I was looking to establish.
Ah-- and, as a last note, there's a definite difference in tone between the missions for the Federation and the State. As a Caldari mission runner, I went for years without getting a single "rescue the damsel" mission, but I got to assassinate lots of DED informants. That sort of thing will kind of color your perspective on who you are and who you work for.
That enough to satisfy? Or would you like me to dig up some more of my old sources? (Some of my points of reference come from in-game descriptions, which my expired account might not let me access; fair warning.)