Eh, just as well. I'm not good recruitment material, heh. But let's stay on-topic here.
Now, as Zu showed rather eloquently, kinks and fun in the bedroom is rather common and happens in every part of society. It doesn't necessarily have to play out as pain play, or all out Dom/sub stuff, but it's still kink. This should also illustrate that there's a lot of us out there, and that you quite possibly are one of us, at some degree or another.
Don't be ashamed, people. Step up, and let us know your particular kinks and desires.
If you don't want to do that yourself, feel free to PM me if you are just looking for an understanding ear. Hell, even if you have absolutely no kinks right now, but have some curiosities, you can ask here or in a PM. If I can't help or reply, I can lead you to water at other community sites catering to kinks. It's a very warm and welcoming community, towards honest 'newbies'. Hell, I honestly can't say I've ever felt more welcome than when I first reached out to such communities.
Come. Ask or speak, or just proclaim. It's fun to get these things out.
Edit due to posting before me:
Havo, stop using Zu as a Domme! My Havo!
* Mizhara lightly taps a crop on the calf, indicating where Havo gets to kneel naked.