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Re: Lifestylers, fetishists, Alts, kinksters and pervs...
« Reply #30 on: 20 Apr 2010, 19:31 »

Damn it Havo!  Quit using me as recruitment material.
Yes, Mistress.
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Re: Lifestylers, fetishists, Alts, kinksters and pervs...
« Reply #31 on: 20 Apr 2010, 19:36 »

Eh, just as well. I'm not good recruitment material, heh. But let's stay on-topic here.

Now, as Zu showed rather eloquently, kinks and fun in the bedroom is rather common and happens in every part of society. It doesn't necessarily have to play out as pain play, or all out Dom/sub stuff, but it's still kink. This should also illustrate that there's a lot of us out there, and that you quite possibly are one of us, at some degree or another.

Don't be ashamed, people. Step up, and let us know your particular kinks and desires.

If you don't want to do that yourself, feel free to PM me if you are just looking for an understanding ear. Hell, even if you have absolutely no kinks right now, but have some curiosities, you can ask here or in a PM. If I can't help or reply, I can lead you to water at other community sites catering to kinks. It's a very warm and welcoming community, towards honest 'newbies'. Hell, I honestly can't say I've ever felt more welcome than when I first reached out to such communities.

Come. Ask or speak, or just proclaim. It's fun to get these things out.

Edit due to posting before me:

Havo, stop using Zu as a Domme! My Havo!
* Mizhara lightly taps a crop on the calf, indicating where Havo gets to kneel naked.
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Re: Lifestylers, fetishists, Alts, kinksters and pervs...
« Reply #32 on: 20 Apr 2010, 19:38 »

God, I'm boring. :P
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Re: Lifestylers, fetishists, Alts, kinksters and pervs...
« Reply #33 on: 20 Apr 2010, 19:40 »

God, I'm boring. :P

Why? Don't you have fun in bed? And doesn't your partner in bed have fun? Then you're not boring, just vanilla. It takes all tastes and preferences. If there weren't 'normal' relationships and tastes, there wouldn't be a term for us deviants.
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Re: Lifestylers, fetishists, Alts, kinksters and pervs...
« Reply #34 on: 20 Apr 2010, 19:42 »

Well, I did include the :P for a reason.  :yar:
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Re: Lifestylers, fetishists, Alts, kinksters and pervs...
« Reply #35 on: 20 Apr 2010, 19:43 »

I liked claiming I was boring until Havo and a previous pilot from Du'uma showed me my larping was um... well... *sigh*

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Re: Lifestylers, fetishists, Alts, kinksters and pervs...
« Reply #36 on: 20 Apr 2010, 19:44 »

Weren't you impregnated while wearing handcuffs?
* Mizhara flees.... \o\
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Re: Lifestylers, fetishists, Alts, kinksters and pervs...
« Reply #37 on: 20 Apr 2010, 19:49 »

Weren't you impregnated while wearing handcuffs?
* Mizhara flees.... \o\

Wasn't that supposed to stay on vent?
And yes - also with my ankles strapped to the headboard, with candles lit and rose petals all over the room.  I wanted a baby and I knew I was ovulating that day.  And if Lisa ever finds this she is going to disown her mother.

Back on topic - what do you mean by alts in the title Miz? 
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« Reply #38 on: 20 Apr 2010, 19:56 »

Pssh, that was vanilla enough. Needed to push out more kink stuff here, to make the nervous bystanders with 'dirty' desires and curiosities understand that it's not just weird people like me who have some kinks and fun.

But really, the point here is that completely normal and morally great people like Zuzanna here (anyone who knows her will attest to this) might enjoy some 'fun' at times. Come on out people, and let people know. It's only that strange indoctrinated dread of 'bad and naughty' things that keeps any one of you from taking that final step towards something you may have dreamed about but never tried.

Stop worrying. Stop thinking 'this isn't normal'. Don't feel ashamed, ever. Let your kink out, people. Gay people have been out and about for a very long time now. Don't let yourself down by thinking your curiosity is worth less than them. Aren't they normal? So are you. More names! More nicks and personalities! Come one, come all.

Zu: Alts are another word for people who live 'alternate lifestyles' or have 'alternative approaches to sexual conduct/tastes'. It's simply a nickname derived from the word 'alternative'.
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Re: Lifestylers, fetishists, Alts, kinksters and pervs...
« Reply #39 on: 21 Apr 2010, 04:46 »

I have a good deal of respect for you lot prancin' about in public with your heads full of eyeballs as it were, but I can't be kind about this.
The Eve community (to me at least) seems to consist more of mature and somewhat open-minded people than most other Gamer communities. Besides, it's not like the lifestyle or just kinks are taboo in this day and age anyway.

Ahahahahaha*SNORT*hahahaha, oh, Miz.

It's nice to have newbies around.

Anyway, I'm not telling you freaks 'bout my alts. They sekrit.

This reminds me, I gotta read me some de Sade ><

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Re: Lifestylers, fetishists, Alts, kinksters and pervs...
« Reply #40 on: 21 Apr 2010, 10:20 »

Anyway, I'm not telling you freaks 'bout my alts. They sekrit.
Either you mean a different kind of 'alts' or you got me :p
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Re: Lifestylers, fetishists, Alts, kinksters and pervs...
« Reply #41 on: 21 Apr 2010, 12:37 »

Yeah, I'm a deeply kinky bastard switch (mainly Dom).
Unfortunately where I live there is no real community of like-minded folk to speak of. So, eventually my relationships peter out due to boredom, as I've never so much as met anyone not on the internet who shares my interests (Girlfriends: "Huh? that sounds weird!").
Oh well. Maybe someday I can afford to move somewhere interesting people live.
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Re: Lifestylers, fetishists, Alts, kinksters and pervs...
« Reply #42 on: 21 Apr 2010, 13:18 »

So far I've seen no mention of examples of lifestyles/alts so I'm going to throw one out there:

Open marriages : I think folks often refer to this as swingers.

So I guess I'll start pretty vanilla - I already talked about my little playground.  But lifestyle wise - plain jane - married housewife, part time school with a kid and such.  Closed relationship - just me and my hubby with the quirk of we both RP and he doesn't really mind my characters dating characters that aren't his.  Some people claim that dating folks with your character is still swinging (The bishop at my church says my RP is adultery and even watching porn together is a sin), others say OOC is not IC.

If my sweet innocence here means I missed the point and derailed a little, smack me Miz dear.

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Re: Lifestylers, fetishists, Alts, kinksters and pervs...
« Reply #43 on: 21 Apr 2010, 13:31 »

We're fairly similar, except that my wife doesn't RP. She doesn't think of RP as RL, though, so as long as anything I do stays IC, it's cool.

I mean, considering the other stuff our characters do, dating should be the least of our worries.
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Re: Lifestylers, fetishists, Alts, kinksters and pervs...
« Reply #44 on: 21 Apr 2010, 13:34 »

'Hey darling I killed another sixhundredthousand people today, I hope you don't mind, they're all just underclass peasents anyways."  ;)
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