I've always kind of thought that if you make TOO much information available in these 'reports' then no one has any reason to take the time and try and talk to you about your background.
Granted some people don't WANT to talk about about, which is fine. Personally, I think enough to let them get the gist, but not enough to be fully informed is the perfect balance.
Hm.
Well, one way around that is to avoid making your background info too consistent or "deep." People form all sorts of different impressions about each other, and you can use their very subjective remarks to reveal certain facets of the character while concealing others.
For me, part of the fun of playing a complex character is to get a coherent "whole" going while keeping it complicated and kaleidoscopic enough that few people, if any, ever get the whole picture. No one should get much more from reading Aria's school reports than they would from reading mine.
Mind you, I've left less of a disciplinary paper trail than Aria has....
I really like what you did, Aria. Always been impressed by your work stuff, even if most of its over my head.
Aw, thanks.
Yeah, Aria gets wordy and abstract. That's partly a flaw in her character, but it's partly a flaw in my character, too.
In the immortal words of Danny Quayle, "Verbosity leads to unclear, incoherent things." I've struggled with it in my own writing, and gotten better, but Aria remains (as she probably should, at least for now) addicted to fancy language.