Not sure if anyone mentioned this, but don't let people fool you, skillpoints aren't overly important.
You'll hear a lot from people, and may occasionally get to feel as such yourself, that you will never "catch up" to other people because you only have a few million skillpoints and other people have 20million or more. Thing about it is if you focus your direction for just 3-4 weeks, you are equal to them in the ship you've focussed on.
Let me explain.
Let's say you decide you want to be a battlecruiser pilot. You build up for them, and spend some weeks or maybe a month or so training specifically the skills to pilot a Drake. So you've got Lillith here with 28-30mil SPs (I forget which, ahaha), and you've got 8mil SPs. Seems like a huge divide, right? Well it's really not, because in that Battlecruiser only six million SPs are actually in current use.
Someone here said it just gives you more options, and that's what it means. On top of flying my Drake, I have the option of about 6 or 7 other ship classes spanning 2 nation's types.
But in the Drake, you and I would be even.
So focus is key early on. Decide what you want to do and do it.
I think Silver's on to something, you sound like a cloaky-gang type person.