I had a couple of cases of dying outside of the pod.
One time, my character died and forgot completely what happened, and I was even playing her, trying to find out. She still can't comprehend why happened what happened.
Second time, my character died, but another player's character brought my body inside my pod, attached it and 'brainscanned' me, so when I woke up, I remembered all details, but it caused some defects, that were fun to play.
:spoiler: Oh, after that case my character has installed hardware protection on her implants to prevent unsanctioned scanning
With rare exceptions, I allow people to do with my character to do whatever they like, so if they want to kill me, good. I can forget it. As for remembering, there are cameras and things. Thus, my character can look at the recording and realize, what happened. This was actually used for the first case of my death, that I described. But the said recording left more questions for my character than answers