No, Eve doesn't give me all the options. I can't do independent research. I can't crash entire economies with all my space cash. I can't ram a supercapital into a station. I can't do a lot of things in EVE I'd like to.
*snipping* this bit because I'd like to respond to it directly: In the second golden age of Live Events (Incursions + Arek'Jalaan) we
did get to do this.
Crash a supercapital into a station? Not exactly, but on player suggestion we had an entire event arc with CCP actors involved regarding crashing a freighter into a wormhole. It happened, in space, with explosions, and is a definite part of the larger Incursion story.
Independent research? Oof, where do I begin? Arek'Jalaan had piles of this, some of which reached potentially metagaming levels in its methods but was fun nonetheless.
You know what the best thing about this was? We had lots of people involved in this. I don't want to call them 'non-RPers' because they really were taking the extra step to RP as a person in the universe, but they certainly weren't what I'd call 'traditional RPers'. The guy who crashed the freighter into a wormhole? Not a traditional RPer. The wormholers submitting piles of research to Arek'Jalaan? Definitely not traditional RPers.
But they took the time to take those few extra steps and instead of merely trying to exert their influence
over the game world as so many players do, they tried to work
within the game world. In return, they were acknowledge - and, yes, at times told 'no'. But it was a kind of interaction I've really only rarely seen, and it was glorious.