Maybe I misread Scagga's post, and I fully accept that possibility. But when I read it, my eyebrows shot off the top of my head and I really felt like it didn't reflect the sort of "lovey-dovey" environment the FAQ promotes.
Casiella, you're on one of the extremes of the board's little community.
I'm on the other.
We are heavily involved with many mod threads.
We often speak from self-appointed positions of authority, and we should likely, in the eyes of many, do it less.
We can live with that, I think. However, it does need to be underscored that the more common equivalent to EVE's conception of lovey-dovey is very possibly simple and direct camarediere, or what I feel Silver practices.
I feel you're going for something rather nicer than that - something a bit more sensitive. My personal opinion is that it is more sensitive than what is necessary
for this board, because for some reason when I fail to measure up to
your standard, I'm NOT moderated.
And just so we're clear that I'm not calling you out in any broader sense than the moderation of this board in the opinion of its userbase (and not it's staff)...Whether your conception of decent conduct in a public setting or mine is the more useful for society at large has no bearing in the context of my post, and as such I have had no intention of touching on the matter here.
this forum's going from 'nice community' to 'For god's sakes don't open your mouth!'.
I have noticed that I tend to feel that this has some ring of truth in it when others are moderated, and not when I'm moderated. Or perhaps when the sum total of moderation of others within the past few days is greater than the sum total of moderation I provoke.
This has disturbing implications.