This will be my only reply on this so I won't seriously derail the tread's purpose. (Anymore.)
Thing is, BB is exactly where *he* wants to be. Technically where I want him too. However his chosen life is hard, getting harder. By choosing not to forgive anyone for anything they do that he considers to be unforgivable, he's cutting of a huge load of people. As far as this game is concerned, people do the things he considers unforgivable on a regular basis and they don't think any long-term consequences are warranted. HE disagrees, and so do I. But down that road lies serious loneliness, capsuleer-wise. Eventually there will be thousands of enemies and only a few people that might be friendly, bar those few who end in the 'neutral' ground in between, and he's not dealing with those either. Hell at this point there is a guy in his current corp that, IC-wise he despises, but I can't very well treat that guy like shit OOC, can I?
Anyhow, I'll elaborate on the "issue" at hand here if I ever get around to finishing the IC biography, given my interest levels this may never happen, but I'll bring the issue up for discussion then. Until then, carry on, and sorry for the slight derail o7
(And thanks for the replies, somewhat enlightening.)