As this thread is directly addressed to me, I feel compelled to respond to the best of my ability.
To clarify, my brother is a captain in the united states army, graduate of USMA west point '00, and served one tour in Iraq in 2003. I never intended this to be an ad hominem dispute regarding Seriphyn's qualifications as a military trainee. My knowledge about internal military affairs comes from my conversations with my brother about his experiences, his letters, and my independent research on military doctrine and training in military academies.
The question at hand here is a conflicting perception regarding the Federation Military. This then rapidly ascended to Seriphyn claiming he knew more than I about military affairs, when I brought it up out of character, and thus had authority to set the tone about the Federation military.
The core of the issue here is whether or not any military's doctrine can be founded on the principles of 'individual initiative'. That was the substantive debate. There were no ad hominems thrown around OOC as Seriphyn attempts to portray in the OP. I observed that he became extremely emotionally invested in the debate, and I continued to press the issue. That has resulted to this thread here.
Can a military be run by the idea that commissioned officers and NCO's can run around and do whatever they please so long as it's still 'for the good of the country' or 'gets the job done'? The point of contention was whether the Federation's Navy could have people that wanted to 'prove their mettle' and were illicitly torturing or harming POW's to gain additional information or simply to spite the Caldari because they hated them. Seriphyn claimed at the time that because the Federation promoted 'initiative' in the military structure, this also encouraged such acts outside of orders and protocol.
Soter's point that he made in the Assembly was that there was no such idea: indeed, initiative can in many cases lead to insubordination. Unity of effort must take precedence, above all else, if a military is to be effective. And this was then contested by Seriphyn. The issue became intractable. No further effort was made by Seriphyn to substantively discuss the core issue, and it has since become overblown by the claims of 'ad hominem' attacks.
Edit: It is also important to note that at this point, Seriphyn has blocked me from in-game contact due to this conversation, eliminating any future possibility of concluding the substantive debate or removing any doubt regarding my lack of desire to attack him personally.