I really didn't want this thread to become a debate on this particular conflict. It was meant to be about this particular phenomenon as it's been encountered throughout Eve's long career, and our views on it. Still, twice now there's been very specific examples drawn out and claims being made so I am going to have to respond or be pretty severely misrepresented, seemingly maliciously.
Sami; my understanding is that overtures have been made at points, but they've been turned away, or else milked for maximum salt/humiliation before being turned away.
There's been
one. Miz was approached by a certain dessicated avocado who fell asleep in his soup mid conversation. Where that conversation was going to go is to this date entirely unclear. All other "overtures" as far as I can remember have been OOC in nature and largely consisting of accusations of bullying. Some of the better quotes have indeed ended up in my bio, like "pray you never meet me in real life you will not like it...." for instance. That one's nifty. "You are an asshole, there is no ic reason you would be in CVA space." is right up there with when a whole slew of us were accused of being "SSoE toting pacifists". I don't really count OOC salt spigots to be 'overtures' of much of anything, especially not when they often open with variants of "fuck you".
And the entertaining thing about your second 'don't trust ARC' point is that it was a single Sansha RPer at the end of the event, in a freeport that Miz herself has used to lambast us as ignorant. So, either IKAME's ignorant of mechanics, or eeevil (collaborating with Sansha!), or... it's a freeport? And, either way, using it as justification for a preexisting declaration seems... circular?
It was never used as a justification for the war declaration. It was further confirmation of ARC/SFRIM not being trustworthy. You can exclude people and entities from Freeports, and not doing so with creatures like Sansha etc is a very dire sign of "these can not be trusted with
anything vulnerable.". The justification not to trust ARC/SFRIM at the beginning of the event was very simple: SFRIM had already disappeared thirty thousand people once before, and SFRIM members had broken deals and agreements in relation to even more of Miz's people on top of that. Throw in the fact that pretty much from the moment SFRIM joined ARC, their members started appearing on killboards fighting for the slaver Empire and the ARC/SFRIM combo
instantly and very publicly made themselves an outright stated enemy of Miz and her people.
Expecting a Matari to trust them with one, much less hundreds, thousands or millions of their people is kind of a nonsensical notion.
In the meantime, I might recommend Miz being less self-congratulatory over successful salt farming. I don't think anyone has a moral high ground to put themselves on in an internet spaceship video game.
It's less about self-congratulations, and more lamenting the lacking willingness to resolve the issues. All this salt is so
unnecessary. Instead of OOC recriminations over
playing the game, perhaps diplomacy is in order?
Mechanically speaking, though, Kala nailed it on wardecs. Given the structure in EVE, wardecs do vastly favor the attacker. There are no win conditions. Neutral alts, scouts, and channel surveillance (because RPers tend to be in visible places) make it easy to pick a target and hunt them for multiple days if need be. Miz *is* an eminently capable hunter, but also plays sporadically enough that planning to try to trap her is ineffective at best.
You know, I dec'd this other bear alliance recently. They'd done my own bears grievous injustices, so Miz intervened. Pretty instantly I was expertly lured into a trap, my FleetPhoon and a Tengu up against not only the FleetPest and Ashimmu I'd initially scouted but also several logis, more Ashimmus and a Loki. If I hadn't lucked the fuck out and disengaged with haste, I would have been up shit creek without a paddle. It was
gloriously done and if they'd had time for a backstop I'd be down two very expensive ships. Then we talked a bit, had a few good laughs, congratulated each other and so on. Then a couple of days later they actually attacked my Fortizar. Adrenaline rush extraordinaire. I hadn't "piloted" something that expensive in PvP since I flew the supers, and even then only when combining with alts. These bears came for me with gusto and vigor, and did fail eventually.
I was invited into their friends channel when the dec was over, as we'd jousted, tussled and then after a bit of diplomacy gotten to an agreement.
They trapped me, almost successfully. They attacked my Fortizar, also almost successfully. They didn't need to see me in channels or anything. They have
less tools at their disposal to both be aware of me and my actions and countering them than any RP entity. Most of my scout alts are burned after a single kill or so and the rest of them are ones that are already known. You all have them marked, and you know when I have eyes on you guys. You also know when I'm online and in all likelihood know or can know exactly where I am. I should be one of the easiest marks to protect yourself from, or even be aggressive against out there.
Yes, highsec wardecs do favor the aggressor.
... to a degree. I'm also one single player. I can have a few scouts out there. If I luck out with the engagement location, I might be able to have a second combat character on grid making both of them work at 70% efficiency at best. Most of my hunts have been successful because of one thing: My enemies
choose to not fight back, for the very most part. So many of my kills, other war targets have been
in system or just one system over, but no one's come to help them. It's so rare to see them protect each other. I've had a WT RLML Caracal on grid with my Svipul,
watch me warp to the ice-belt, where I slowboated almost 100km to reach the WT Hulk, kill it, loot it and leave... uncontested.
Okay I'm rambling by now, but the point is... yeah, this is hardly a situation where the defender is lacking options. Oh yes, if you guys spread out and bear solo and don't watch local I can probably rush in and get a kill. It's happened a few times now. However, how do you think I'd fare against
two HACs? Three? A HAC and a Battleship? Two Battlecruisers even? You guys have the numbers and industry that vastly overshadows anything I could
possibly bring out.
You won't, of course. People simply don't want to fight and that's fine. Just don't say it's because it can't be done. "We cant fight you" is a direct quote. It's also demonstrably wrong.