Skip to the end for the relevant stuff. Turns out I actually have a lot to say about the other thing despite my lack of involvement. This forum still has "smileys" and that's adorable. Not emojis, not even emoticons. Smileys.
this is a companion cube. it's like seeing into the past.
Since you brought it up...
I don't think you're accurately representing the criticism about Sanxing. I wasn't around, but that drama was one of the first things I heard about when I started reconnecting with my EVE friends.
My outside perspective as someone who watched the trainwreck with vague unease, your friends didn't provide the full story.
MITG's stated IC rationale of "defending our buddy's honor" is pretty weak tea compared to the OOC "easy Citadel kill / trolling" narrative from critics. Add to that the fact that Sanxing hardly claimed to be "undefeatable warriors" IC, they were a corp of new players with a non-PVP humanitarian / political RP playstyle. You basically wardecced the Disciples of Ston, and then bragged about winning.
Again, your friends clearly didn't give the full story.
It wasn't an easy citadel kill either, in terms of raw numbers, they were outnumbered by the defenders allies. They could get far easier citadel kills with far less effort(and backlash) from other sources if that's what they wanted.
An Astrahus killmail isn't worth that much effort.
If anything, MITG seems to be the risk averse party, as your organization didn't / doesn't have assets in space subject to retaliation.
Uuh? What?
I did some quick research, forgive me if I'm wrong, MITG live in J172840, a C5 wormhole. They're certainly pretty active in there anyway. Living in a wormhole without any in space assets(POS, Citadel, etc) would be pretty hard. Literally
all of their commonly used assets are likely sitting in a citadel without asset safety to protect it. If you blow up their citadel(assuming they don't live in a POS, which is possible but highly unlikely), all of those assets get thrown into space in cans that anyone can loot.
Everything they own is subject to retaliation. And with wormhole citadel mechanics, they could lose all of this in a weekend.
So ya, your unasked for and disproportionate PVP response killed what had been interesting RP for both I-RED and Sanxing and drove an active RP participant from the game in disgust. GG.
If losing an Astrahus made someone quit "in disgust", they wouldn't have lasted anyway. Those are the people that pack everything they own into a T1 hauler fit with nothing but cargo expanders and lose it all to a ganker on the Jita undock, go rant on the forums about how unfair eve is and how horrible the community is and then quit, leaving no impact other than a good return on investment for a catalyst.
The person in question made no attempt to even contact them. He just threw his hands up and left. Leaving behind a shitstorm of victim narratives and drama bullshit that's going to last ages and make the community even more hostile for newcomers.
As for unasked for, you should really ask your friends for the full story.
The original topic: People like to form groups. People who pvp and people who don't, in this case. It's not just RP, mission runners, ratters, industrialists, traders. Everyone tends toward a group identity based on what gameplay interests them and well-- anyone that doesn't share that is just misguided.
"How can I rat with these pvpers moving around? It's just griefing and shouldn't be allowed!".
"Market trading is just full of botters who 0.01 isk every 5 minutes. No one can actually do that.".
"Mining is for noobs. You'll either quit in a week or grow up and join a null alliance and start pvping.".
I'm fairly new to Eve as well. I only started playing(for realsies anyway, I've tried to play before but didn't get into it) about a year ago. That sounds longer now that I say it but it hasn't really felt that long. There's lots of old and very silly drama that I at one point tried to understand but rapidly gave up on and really can't bring myself to care about anymore. X person(or group) doesn't like Y person(or autonomous collective) because of Z. Or E. Or R. Or maybe even P, who can say for sure.
I want to add more to this because I want the actual relevant discussion stuff to feel more meaningful than the before explained and surprisingly long opinion on the earlier drama, but really that's all I have. People tend toward groups. This causes issues with smaller groups, and the eve rp community is small.