That applies to pretty much every country. There is not a single identifying feature, dress style, concept, value or whatever that I share with all other Norwegians other than being born and raised here. Hell, we don't even share that if we count adult immigrants, which I personally do. The nation itself has an identity though. One borne from history, internal and external, with conflicts, differences, unifying events and god this is a lot of commas. The identity of a nation may be difficult to pin down to a nice list of bullet points (or holes, in some cases), but I'm having serious trouble coming up with one that doesn't have one.
Yes. Exactly.
Because that's very much what she was telling you - that there is no single identifying feature, dress style, concept, value etc in Scotland.
Though I'd disagree with your last part and your distinction between a nation itself having an identity, and there not being any single unifying feature. This is the reason
why it's difficult to pin down to a nice list of bullet points. I'm having trouble coming up with a nation that
does have a solid unified unfractured idea of it's own identity - apart from ones where such ideas are actively enforced.
Thing is though, from the outside - a unifying National Identity can be formed by cultural stereotypes or othering.
For England, for example, those cultural stereotypes might be sarcasm, queueing and complaining about the weather. And we might be othered (or other ourselves) as a unifier - for example, we are what these people are not, they are what we are not, etc. Americans tend to see us as 'quaint' and polite in relation (certainly not the shared experience of certain popular European cheap holiday destinations) whereas the Aussie's tend to see us as stuck up poms. Which are all generalisations, ofc, and depend on the subject position or who the comparison is with.
And yes, a nation's history and culture will shape an idea of itself. But that as well cannot be pinned down to any one unifying perspective. For example, many people will view the British Empire as one of pride and accomplishment. Others a sense of shame for our colonial past.
But from the inside, that view changes somewhat. You pick up on all the little differences (some quite big differences) that you refer to. Class is quite a big one. The perspective of 'England' from the upper, middle and working classes are all going to be fairly different. Race is another. There might be an idea that England is a 'white' country (particularly from the far-right) who're being invaded by foreigners. So how does that work if you're born in England, your family were born in England, you view yourself as English, but you aren't white so other people deny your Englishness? (which end up with some fairly ridiculous conversations like, "Oh, where are you from?" "Liverpool." "Yes, but, where are you from originally?" "...Liverpool?" "Yes, but, what I mean is, where do your family come from?" "...Liverpool?!") And how does it work when, if you look at our place names, we don't actually have a cohesive identity, but have been informed by various invaders, such as Normans, Saxons, Romans and Vikings?
Aside from *that* there's regional distinctiveness and all the cultural stereotypes that go along with that. The different characters of our cities. The different accents in our counties. There's a reason, for example, why Yorkshire accents are used in advertisements. For whatever reason, a Yorkshireman is considered trustworthy. Maybe the rural idyll of one-man-and-his-dog from Last of the Summer Wine or something, I'm not sure. And really, they were all part of separate Kingdoms anyways, once. The Isle of Wight, for example, will happily other itself by describing the rest of the country in it's entirety as 'the mainland'. While Wales, Northern Ireland and Scotland can rightfully call themselves other countries within the UK, Cornwall and Northumberland (and whoever else) also kind of seem like separate principalities or kingdoms. (and in fact, Northumberland - being the borders, are in a bit of an awkward position in all of this being so close to Scotland. It's not really like they have that much to do with the rest of England, given that the wealth and power is concentrated in London and the South East).
So yes, when unified or othered externally, all these disparate characters can be generalised, but that's not necessarily an accurate depiction of 'one' identity that everybody shares. But you can't always see that from the outside. When you just see the generalised characteristics.
So when Louella tells you, from the inside, what some of these differences are in the different areas that trouble the idea of one unified identity, and you dismiss that as talking for all Scottish people, I can see why that might get her goat. I don't think you intended it that way, but yes, it did seem like you were saying that your idea of a Scottish national identity from an outsider perspective where you don't see all these individual details, are more valid than her idea of a more complex, detailed and distinct Scotland from the inside.
I get as well that you're doing it out of a positive place; love for Scotland and the Scots, and view it as a shared Scandinavian identity in terms of acceptance (i.e you can see some commonality), and that you've met and genuinely liked some Scottish people. But if you're saying
she can't speak for all Scots on what a national identity is or isn't, I would suggest that
you can't either - and, in fact, if either of you
were to generalise in this manner, she would be in a better 'place' to do so.
I think the idea was for UK identity to stop prevailing over the Scottish one.
Valid, but I don't think the issue is the UK gobbling up Scotland's identity and distinctiveness by amalgamation.
It's more, within the UK, England having a significant amount of power over Scotland, given the power base is concentrated in Westminster.
(Though frankly, if they could, I think a lot of England would want independence from Westminster also).
Edit:
Duncan McLeod of the clan McLeod, is from Wester Ross, speaks Gaelic, read Gaelic poetry at school, watches shinty on the telly, and wears a kilt.
I've met Duncan. Other than being born in the same geographical area, according to the lines on the maps, I didn't have anything in common.
Fuck me, and I thought he was a fictional character