Also, i'm getting fed up of that derogatory attitude which consists to point fingers at people that do not do things in space so whatever they say, do or else, is somehow irrelevant.
What I will say is that the fundamental aspect of god-modding in Eve to me is making an unverifiable claim or assertion that affects another character in any way without tacit consent. What happens in-game and the PF to me are the only justifiable, independent, arbitrary factors that should affect both a player and a character, and it is why I try as best as possible to keep my RP both within the game and in the PF.
It isn't a question to me as to whether or not anything written about the world outside the scope of what occurs functionally within the game or the PF is god-modding to me -- it is. The only thing that concerns me is the degree to which such player/non-canon arbitration affects others and the manner in which it is presented. If some player fiction is presented in a manner where the claims made can be ignored, opted-out, seen as a different perspective or if all else fails, at least be seen as detrimental by other players or characters then I think it's a non-issue. This is different if the claims being made can't. Using the example of Napanii, the claim that it is THE ONE AND ONLY Caldari language is arbitrary. The same with Heiian as being THE ONE AND ONLY system of Caldari honour is arbitrary. Both are/were non-PF and have not been reflected in the game world. Their only "legitimacy" is the scope of their usage. It doesn't change the fact they're unverifiable and that the degree of their arbitrary claims means if you don't subscribe/use them then you're arbitrarily said to not know how to speak Caldari or know an integral part of Caldari culture.
Small RP claims made in private, through mutual consent, differ greatly from large claims made in public where the demands become largely arbitrary upon everyone else. The questions I try to ask when I or other people write about affecting the world instead of actually affecting it in space and in-game are not whether or not it's god-modding, because I feel it is. Rather the points I try to consider are:
- Perception vs. Reality: The degree to which the claims made are seeking to imply objective truth that must be accepted versus subjective perception that permits a variety of means to interact with stated claims.
- Scope: The degree to which stated claims might be said to affect others. Claims that affect the world-at-large are different than claims which are said to only affect a character or organization.
- Denial/Opting-out/Ignoring: The degree to which a claim can be denied or opted-out by others while still remaining consistent with the world. The difference between presenting an opinion and stating something is hard fact -- especially important when claims have tenuous basis within PF.
- Consequence: If claims only provide positive consequences to the person making them, especially to the detriment of others, without providing potential negative consequences that might be detrimental to themselves then hello there Mary-Sue.
Consent/Arbitration: The only truly arbitrary things that should happen in Eve are what happens in the game and in space. Everything else implies a degree of consent when playing with others.
That's just a few points that come to mind for me, and I at least do try to practice what I preach. I mean, I won't deny that I feel I've god-modded at times in my RP because not all my RP is conducted in space. I have however tried to balance some of the above points in my mind in consideration towards other players/characters when deploying an arc or making claims. I might point out the Khanid shenanigans involving Pyre Falcon and POW's: I tried to balance perception vs. reality; set the scope to something small and realistic reflecting the size/goals/politics of the organization; provide some ways for people to opt-out of it or outright ignore it; I deliberately provided the means for negative consequence both functionally and by reputation; I sought to balance consent/arbitration with what a Caldari mercenary organization does in-game. I don't think I always succeed but I do at least try.
However I think I might have fundamental philosophical issues with other roleplayers like yourself in Eve. To me I play Eve solely as a political simulator between different capsuleer groups and organizations premised solely upon conflict and an economy of war. In fact, the longer I participate or engage with the "RP community" I actually end up feeling less immersed in the world of New Eden. This is because it ends up feeling like my character has to become some kind of delusional person living in a continuous state of cognitive dissonance in order to maintain some sort of alternate reality where what you actually do, what you actually have to fight to earn, gain and maintain is less important than what you tell others you do while you're docked in a station writing about how awesome and powerful you are.