Of course not. People who spout off bravado about how little they care have A) never witnessed wartime deaths and B) have nothing to lose by acting tough. In reality, if they had to see somebody die in a sarin gas attack, they'd be humanitarians tomorrow.
Ironically, if it happened here, those same people would be shouting "terrorism" at the top of their lungs.
Is it a bad idea to start this mess? Absolutely. But adding the attitude of "fuck them, they're not my people" is not only tragic, it also makes you part of the problem.
Ok. I don't think I'm doing a tough guy act. I've known some fairly tough guys in my life, and, generally, they were not without feelings, at least as far as I was able to tell.
I strongly believe that being angry, or happy, or anything else, is not a good premise upon which to make decisions. If you have to sacrifice one life to save several, does feeling guilty help you? Does worrying about what the sacrificed person might feel help you? No. Five for one is a better situation than five lost. Five lives for one is the correct choice to maximize human well-being whether you feel happy, sad, indifferent, or angry. The only thing an emotional response will do is cloud your judgment.
The argument seems to be that I am wrong and bad for simply thinking it through and not feeling. I'm sorry. I don't feel. I can't seem to feel for them. And, when September 11th happened, as far as terrorist incidents go, I felt excitement, maybe a touch of anger, and not much else. I was excited to see something historic happening, and a little angry that someone had dared to attack us, including me by extension. I joined in the "outrage", because that's what it seems people do, for reasons that I have trouble fathoming, sometimes.
Is this cruel? Of course not. I didn't do anything. Yet people seem to become upset if you don't care along with them, as if that means I favor the other side. That's not the case. I simply don't approach a situation with this sort of contagious suffering and happiness the rest of you seem to - from my perspective - suffer from. But can you argue that a more dispassionate and calculated approach to the September 11th attacks would have been worse?
My point isn't how little I feel, it's that decisions should not be based on feelings. Events and actions should be treated, in my mind, like business decisions, or mathematical equations. You figure out what your goal is, you calculate the costs and contingencies, and then you execute. Maybe you need diplomacy and charm, maybe violence, maybe you need to sacrifice some things that you want less than your goal - whatever you need to do, you do. And then you have what you want.
But when I see something like the Syria situation, it looks to me like we are engaging in some sort of collective insanity. See, violence is
expensive. On the personal level, it can often result in fines, jail, death, or, at the least, resentment and burned bridges. On the national level, it means millions and billions in money, countless hours of the lives of productive men, thousands to millions of deaths (permanent end to unique resources), and the destruction of even more vital infrastructure.
So, you give me a supposedly "moral" goal: try to reduce the suffering in the world, and maximize the happiness. Right, ok. And then you are upset when I dispassionately point out that any intervention in Syria likely results in higher costs then are reasonable? Not upset over my conclusion - I welcome the contest intellectually on a cost/benefit basis - but upset because I "don't care about the Syrians"?
And why is it worse to be gassed, as opposed to shot, or starved to death, or drowned, or any number of other deaths?
To me, you might well spend the money more profitably elsewhere. If you want to increase human happiness around the world, how about cracking down on the child sex trade? How about funding schools and businesses in Africa and Latin America? How about restoring America's flagging public education? How about taking some of the money devoted to the military, and using it to create an Infrastructure Corps to build the necessary public works for people to be happy and healthy? There are spots on this planet where digging a hole to dump sewage in will genuinely raise the standard of living. They have even been on the news, if that is what is important to you.
Yes, I rate very highly on any real test of sociopath/psychopath traits (lack of empathy, emotional shallowness, etc) I've cared to take. But I also rate low on tests for more narcissistic, sadistic, and anti-social traits. I'm not here to advocate murder - killing people seems like a genuinely unwise idea to me most of the time. I'm just looking at the goal you say you want, and concluding that your means for getting you there...won't. At least not as well as others could. I think that that's the issue, not whether I can feel for others.