How do you make money yourself to afford your pvp fix, btw ?
Easy. Don't pvp in ships you can't afford to lose.
Which sounds quite flip, but it's accurate, too. If you can't afford to lose capital ships, don't pvp in capital ships. If you can't afford to lose T2, don't pvp in T2. With FW, especially, it's very feasible to pvp in T1 frigates. While a nicely appointed T2-fitted frigate might set you back 10-15 mil, it's also perfectly simple to fit one out with meta T1 gear for about 1-2 million.
Which means that running a single L4 mission could easily fund a baker's dozen of pvp frigates. If you're not up to soloing L4s, learn to salvage and fly as salvager for a friend's L4 missions. You'll be able to fit at least a few of those 1-2 million isk pvp frigates from the sale of one missions worth of salvage.
I pvped exclusively through the Great Northern War, flying T1 and T2 frigates with less than 20 million isk in my wallet. While I did start ratting towards the end to make money for larger ships, that was still at least 6 months of solid, daily pvp using only the sale of loot and Jericho Fraction's ship replacement program to fund my losses.
And squad-level pvp wing needs tacklers, and a tackling frigate can easily be fitted out for under a million. Start bringing those and your fleet-mates will happily help you fund your losses while thanking you profusely for helping them get kills.
Oh please, I have done years of pvp, i know how it works. I may have had the patience to farm things to afford my pvp ships, but that was still a big hassle. And yes, even for frigates. When you tend to lose those by 3 or 4, it's already more than 75M isk.
I have 115M SP, what are they for if that's for me to only fly in cheap T1 fitted T1 frigates ? What are they for since in solo pvp you mostly need your T2, rigged, faction ammo, nanite pasted (and maybe boosters too) ship to perform decently ? I perfectly understand that it's possible to win by being cunning with a cheap fit, engaging the right things, and all. But when facing people that know what they are doing, and that have skills, you need the slightest bit of advantage you can get, or it seriously limits your targets. Unless you want to spend your time to die, which is maybe fine for a newbie that is discovering pvp the hard way, but not for a vet.
Tbh I envy noobs starting pvp early, their ships are cheap/expendable, even if they do not earn much, and they have costless clones and so on. Now that I look back, finding the funds for the next class of ship (a BC, a BS) was maybe a tantalizing experience at first, but financing the cheap T1 frig I was using was a piece of cake. I should have started pvp that early...
So yes, at the end of my pvp life it started to look like the beginning of my pvp life. You start with cheap shit because that's only what you can fly and afford, and then you begin to use expensive stuff, cruisers, BCs, BSes, T2 cruisers, etc. And when you eventually start to be so bored of farming that you barely make 200M a month through utter disgust, you stop using all of these ships and get back to the cheap shit you used as a noob. Feels a bit like playing an incontinent old man at the end of his life.
So no, that's not easy. The financing part of that game is partially borked. A game is meant to be fun to play. Farming is not, except for the hardcore carebears that run them all the day (and usually do not even pvp).
I have had great fun and my best adrenaline filled moments in expensive ships too. I have banzai-ed in a dread that I barely used once of twice in combat, but what a thrill. I couldn't "afford" to lose it, but what the hell, I went for it with Eran and it payed off. Well technically I could afford it have I had the courage to farm it back for days. That's the problem.
You know what ? People may think what they want of Akhesanpathemka-something (can't remember the spelling of her name) when she ran for the CSM, and she may have had fucked up in many ways, but her main motivator was "I don't want Eve to be like a second job", and well, I agree wholeheartedly.