Perhaps it would be helpful for the discussion to explain why the post below was not moderated, as it could still be interpreted as YDIW?
Istvaan Shogaatsu : I would make him behave with cool and less crazed. Give him some more dignity. He deserves it. I lost quite a bit of respect for the character both IC and OOC after Silas' Festus.
I didn't see it, and that post would indeed probably qualify for moderation. We don't see every single post, or when we do we might not read closely enough to realize it needs moderation.
Edit: Katrina: Reports have the reporter's name attached, along with their comment. That being said, the only people who see it are Mods, and we have rules against telling anyone who reports what. Similarly, we don't disclose who gets warnings or bans in most situations. The exception is when someone brings it up themselves.
Edit2: Lallara, I would encourage you to use the report button if you see a YDIW post that isn't moderated. The thing about reports is that except in particularly egregious cases, we generally only get 1 report - maybe 2 - for any given post. So it isn't like 'Oh, this post has 15 reports, better look at it'. It's more like, 'Oh, this post has a report, better look at it'. It doesn't matter if the reporter or reportee is 'liked' or 'in the majority'.