So in short, all I've tried to get across OOC is here;
The genocide was not actual - it was definitly percieved by the Caldari (and the Feds as well, brilliantly enough) and they would gladly reffer to it as such in history.
The bombardment was strategic, aiming to destroy vital installations and killing opposition to the ground invasion - The news that a whole week's sustained bombardment of cities took place first was not mentioned in the old PF, IIRC, so that part can be pointed at as the most direct 'kill everyone' period, no-matter the U-nat's intentions.
Beyond the few 'yay I was right' moments there are several things I find highly interesting;
That the U-nats were willing to shell their own forces speaks volumes. Old arguments that the months of U-nat rule is the Fed's darkest hour and that the Fed has evolved and moved on from then is plain as day - hard-liner Caldari will ofc claim this is not so, holding the union responcible for all time and blaming the children for the crimes of the fathers - crimes that were highly unpopular - and eventually punished - at the time.
That the Feds would put the U-nat leadership on trial and condemn them, among other things, for attempted genocide speaks volumes here. There was no actual genoicide (proving the Caldari who claim otherwise wrong) but one can't blame them for thinking so and propagating that belief to their offspring for generations to come, making 'you tried to kill us all' the most common anti-Fed sentiment the State ever had, true or not. Fed players have often argued that the bombing was done by a government considered illigitimate and tyrannical at the time, but this has IIRC gone to mostly deaf ears over the years. This might change in the comming years, as well as the fact Fed players can now claim IC that it was likely intentional - one could ceartainly think so...
The 'Intaki 5000' were mostly criminals and dangerous individuals who had, ironically enough considering the U-Nats, earned their exile. The U-Nat intentions in exiling them however still stands as a political knee-jerk reaction against 'collaborators'.
Out of time, I'll leave this here. I want to state however I'm glad the new PF details explains the blame on both sides rather well and flesh out all the other events, like the Pro-Fed Caldari army rising on CP. Some other time.