... Ye of little faith.
Seriously, all the old timers bitching about RP being boring and too much fluffy cuddles should harden up and help fix it.
As a number of people will attest, I am currently trying to antagonize and create some epic conflict RP currently as seemingly very few people left want to.
The main issue when old timers like us try to "antagonize", they quickly end up being the public enemy number 1 to be shot down. And I am not even trying to speak about the average evil mustache twirling bad guy. This issue lies in the fact that this same people going into tea parties and fluffy social RP, complimenting each other at any time, tend to form a solid and compact group of people that now tends to constitutes the majority, the masse. When us old timers try to antagonize, often alone, the risk of being ICly ostracized is very high and you always have to play on the razor's edge. Another issue arises when you start to get the idea to gather other old timers that want to antagonize too : often, since they want to antagonize and are part of other factions, they just can't support your views to prevent that problem to happen. And the last issue is that by simply thinking like this, you insert a lot of OOC thinking behind something that should remain IC.
Lyn, first off - your replies are so hard to read D: Walls of text, but anyway back to the reply.
I would like to think that, while you make points that are certainly valid they don't have to remain so.
I would probably consider myself at least part of that 'mass' and have in part been part of hating on certain idealistic elements in the past, however I certainly don't want to ostracize anyone any more as we are so thin on the ground.
Perhaps the issues then, are on the methods of 'antagonizing' if you will, the way I am trying to create some RP is by creating a mutual understanding OOC before creating IC shenanigans, so instead of just declaring war and being a doosh on the IGS, talking to your opponent first and saying "Hey look, would you be up for (idea)?" so there is less but-hurt when suddenly you rain on their parade.
As for breaking the mold of group mentality, being able to perhaps find a mutual ground and reasonable elements to break the casing, if you will.
As for being part of a faction, that shouldn't be a deterant for RP, if the person is at least decent and most people here on backstage are then again, being able to find something to work together on isn't impossible even if your IC views are totally opposite, if your issue is an OOC one then sorry its probably not worth looking in that area for RP anyway.
So essentially what I am saying is that the bar seems to be the unwillingness for people to talk, OOC/IC whatever and come to a common ground to collaboratively create things so I again reiterate my view of the problem being US.
So, get off your bitter-vet pedestals and if your complaining look at what you could possibly do to create something, and yes I AM a bitter-vet so I can talk as I am trying to move myself out of a place where I was content to bitch to one where I am actively trying to build stuff to do.