I'm actually not sure what your point is. You just sort of implied "dis bads". Mind elaborating?
"This is bad" ?
The point is that this kind of thinking is rather detrimental to RP communities, group activities, and social gaming, because it turns everything to selfishness and mass consumption mentalities, where it is all about the individualistic RPer player and his precious needs and whims, and not about what makes the group faring better overall and producing a better quality of outcomes.
Put more simply, thinking that you are paying so it allows you to do whatever you want as long as you are having fun, as much as very true and possible, doesn't make it the necessary desirable thing to do on the long run. Cf the current state of the community, fragmented, full of bitter and petty griefs towards each other.
Edit : in answer to Synthia's necroing of this thread, Synthia got directly told back that RP involves a decent lot of making stuff up, which sounds perfectly reasonable, and discussing at what scale it could be done was the original purpose of the OP. Synthia got also told something in the vein of "and if people are not happy with something [meaning, if you are not happy with it], they can shove it right up you know where, because i'm a paying customer and I do what I please to have fun". That is what I am reacting to, basically. I am sorry if it wasn't clear from the beginning.