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[Ashar Kor-Azor]

I put the palm of my hand
on my face.

[Mizhara]

Reminds me, I need to buy lotion. Please don't derail the subject though, guys. Pictures are all well and good, but keep them on topic.

[Saede Riordan]

Yes... I do get OoC disturbed by some things. Willing slavery is one of them, as it's hitting far too close to the ultimate taboo in D/s. Breaking someone mentally until the point they believe this is right. This is how it should be. Sure, they might enjoy it, but it's a sin tantamount to murder as far as I'm concerned... because a human mind being destroyed to the point of enjoying being just property and having no freedom... that's murdering a mind. And that's all that we humans are, as far as I'm concerned.

I'm going to be really mentally disturbed here for a moment Miz and ask, what if I want that?

[Zuzanna Alondra]

Curious to clarify (hypothetical or not)- do you want that because your already in it, or because you are purposely seeking it?  It has a slight difference in context.

The next point.. Miztens?  You stole it!  That's my nickname - give it back.  *snuggles her Mitzens*

And while the pictures were mildly off topic, I'm mildly glad for them - the random necro is good to restart conversation.

I personally have been doing a little research into something none related to D/s itself - but a different quirk altogether, inducing breast milk after it's stopped.  It's become an odd curiosity for me for non-baby feeding related reasons.

[Saede Riordan]

Curious to clarify (hypothetical or not)- do you want that because your already in it, or because you are purposely seeking it?  It has a slight difference in context.

I'm not already in it, as for if I would say I'm actively pursuing it, but I'd almost rather like it if it happened to me. Like, I'd not have to worry about anything, I could just be happy with myself.

The next point.. Miztens?  You stole it!  That's my nickname - give it back.  *snuggles her Mitzens*

Yesh, I stealed.

[Mizhara]

I'm going to be really mentally disturbed here for a moment Miz and ask, what if I want that?

Not to be an ass... but I recommend counseling.

[Saede Riordan]

I'm going to be really mentally disturbed here for a moment Miz and ask, what if I want that?

Not to be an ass... but I recommend counseling.

somehow I figured that would be the response.

[Zuzanna Alondra]

I'm going to be really mentally disturbed here for a moment Miz and ask, what if I want that?

Not to be an ass... but I recommend counseling.

Actually - this can have a non-ass side to it.  If it's something you seriously wanted it would be a good thing to seek counseling to make sure it would be mentally healthy for you and to make sure the desire isn't stemming from some sort of under laying problem that needs dealt with.

If after going through a good counselor it's still something of interest, then you went through the proper channels?  It gives the image of "If you don't want a baby use a condom... " except, "If you don't want to get messed up, do your homework and see a counselor."  And oddly the first thought that comes to mind is if you were serious perusing this the person considering being your "owner" if you will - (disclaimer: I personally dislike this idea altogether - I just always play devil's advocate.) it would be required I'd think of them to take care of you and make sure you've gone to a counselor, that you take care of yourself, go to the doctor when needed and are healthy and happy.  A good partner, whether a "master", D/s, vanilla or clueless husband, should always keep the well being of their lover in mind.

I really need to do my homework... *poofs*

[Kelsy Talan]

Your nickname?!


:E *Bites Miztens*


^_-

[Ashar Kor-Azor]

I'm going to be really mentally disturbed here for a moment Miz and ask, what if I want that?

Not to be an ass... but I recommend counseling.

somehow I figured that would be the response.

Well, Nikita, some inclinations are simply dangerous. If you can't feed yourself and are engrossed in self-destructive passivity AND want to be a willing slave, you need to go and find a balance that won't result in a high likelihood of being badly used at the hands of an unworthy party and possibly dying, unless you want to die. In which case, yeah, go get counseling.

We don't want you to go be a different person, we just want you to enjoy your quirks without ending up on a coroner's slab long before your appointed time, and that's a pretty risky set of desires you have.

[Saede Riordan]

Well, Nikita, some inclinations are simply dangerous. If you can't feed yourself and are engrossed in self-destructive passivity AND want to be a willing slave, you need to go and find a balance that won't result in a high likelihood of being badly used at the hands of an unworthy party and possibly dying, unless you want to die. In which case, yeah, go get counseling.

We don't want you to go be a different person, we just want you to enjoy your quirks without ending up on a coroner's slab long before your appointed time, and that's a pretty risky set of desires you have.

Yes yes, I know. TBH, its largely a hypothetical scenario, I highly doubt I would end up in a situation where that happened. I know all about abuse and such. And yes, I shouldn't try to have myself changed into someone else to avoid my problems, thats just running away from them, as I said, this was mostly an exercise in the hypothetical.

[Saede Riordan]

eh, why not?

[Mizhara]

Please don't necro threads without adding to the content.

[Saede Riordan]

the idea was to return the topic to visibility so we could resume the discussions we were having in it...I just don't have anything to add at the moment that wouldn't sound like me whining about the fact I live in a small boring town.

[Saede Riordan]

Please don't necro threads without adding to the content.

Just a bit of a reminder, since it seems to be something people avoid doing:

We have no rule against necroing threads, and in fact encourage it as an alternative to re-posting a similar thread. It has benefits, including keeping a similar discussion all in one thread, and allowing people who may not have been around for the original thread see some discussion they might otherwise miss.

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Thanks!