BloodBird, Grr goes on to say:
"Casual mentions such as "there will always be a place for you here" for example are fine in my eyes but active poaching unless it has been agreed to be acceptable between corps I've always frowned upon if those corps have similar "gentlemens agreements" between them (such as no metagaming for example) or if they are supposedly allies."
Emphasis mine. That's the part I don't get, above. Is he saying that if I mention something like that to an ally, that's poaching, or no?
Sorry, didn't catch that, I'm rather sleepy here.
I think Grr's trying to say that if two allies are supposed to be allies then effectively stealing members from them are not cool. Actively trying to convince a member of another corp, especially an ally, to defect to your corp, is not okay. However if anyone is leaving an ally or whatever ANYWAY, and you simply inform them your corp are recruiting and they might fit, then that's okay.
After all, the difference is “Dude you should so ditch your (allied/neutral) corp and join ours” VS “I heard you were leaving, we are recruiting and you might fit, just so you know.”
The latter may even be as innocent as simply making sure people you like are aware that you DO like them enough to recruit them, so that if they ever do leave their corps they are welcome in yours. That is not poaching; it's informing others of options should they desire them later on.
I think that's what Grr was trying to say, at least.