Well, I was going to stay away from this if it were about gender. But, since it appears to be about something I do care a great deal about, I will comment.
First, I recommended Hitchens because I remembered that he had defended the right to speak, on several occasions, including the one regarding the Denmark cartoons of Mohammad. I also recommended him because he defended the right of those who disagreed with him to say what they wished as well. And it strikes me that Hitchens was, if not perfectly palatable to some, at least much more skilled in defending free speech than Karen Straughn, who, while interesting to listen to, I do not find especially convincing.
That said, I'll also stand up for the rest of what you criticize. For most of my life, I was a devout Evangelical Christian. In 2011, doing some study of the Gospels, and using my Hebrew and Greek dictionaries, I started noticing some contradictions and problems. This led me into an intense period of study and research, which led to my loss of faith.
I'm an atheist, and an anti-theist. Looking back, I see so many ways that religion blighted my life. While my decision was made on the basis of evidence, I also have to say that I am much happier, much more educated, and possess much more...well, peace. But the biggest benefit for me is that I now know the truth, and also that I'm not afraid of learning more truths.
So do I want to get rid of all religion? Yes. I believe religion to be a false comfort, a delusion, and a closing of the mind. I think that it creates tribalism, and I think that the teachings of religion enforce illogical and harmful strictures upon humans, which often lead to harm and death, such as the Catholic Church's prohibition of abortion and condoms, or Evangelicals attempting to teach Creationism, or the idea that beating your wife is sanctioned by the prophet Mohammad. And I've read these holy books, memorized portions of them, in fact, and I do know exactly what I'm talking about.
But anti-theism doesn't agree with banning religious speech. What I want, as an anti-theist, is the right for everyone to put their arguments out there, and for those arguments to be examined with an even-handed thought process evaluating each argument on the basis of reason and evidence. Because when that happens, atheism, tends to win. A lot. Which is one reason why unbelievers are the fastest growing religious demographic in the U.S.
That doesn't mean that I hate believers. Rather, I see them, and my former self, as victims of a mind-virus. And I do my best to, in a caring and kind way, ask them to examine their own beliefs. To date, I have aided in the deconversion of at least two of my friends from Christianity, and I hope to help far more escape the clutches of religion.