The easiest way to avoid some of these 'godmodding' issues is to link them with your capsuleer and how well they do in the capsuleer world.
You are an ace pilot, you do great work, you spearhead the crusade and capture much territory for the Empire, (or something related, just an example here) +5 cool points for your background and adjust your standing in their world accordingly.
You die horribly in a ball of fire every single time you undock, you have no money, no one respects you IC, you have no influence over other capsuleers, maybe -5 cool points for your relative influence planetside.
Also the sized and reach of any organization you work with can help these things.
Large RP groups (something like IRED), have hundreds of thousands of baseliners working away for them.
Old, storied groups (like PIE), are ridiculously famous among Imperial baseliners and are likely inundated with applicants and faithful all the time.
It's all about weaving how you and your character are perceived by others into your RP.