As I think this is an important topic let's have a civil debate on this.
I have always been of the opinion that your IC goings-on need to reflect your In-game goings on.
A three-week old pilot flying an Ibus is going to have a -different- range (not -better- or -worse-) of RP possibilities than a 2 year player flying an Abaddon, or a 5 year business-oriented player who has billions of ISK and controls an entire financial sector. I think we can agree on that.
Just the same, that three-week old player is going to maybe have a great story about the crew of his cruiser doing x, y, and z, while the 4 year player might have a 'broader' story relating to his own assets and the valiant crew of his carrier.
The player in the three-man corp is not going to claim to have 500,000 employees and paramilitaries, and the player with the 500 man corp is perfectly reasonable in doing so.
Ergo we can and I think should make reasonable claims about each other based on character age, assets, wealth, combat efficiency, etc.
If you claim to be an ace pod pilot, I better see some kills. Metrics that are 'unprovable' in game I think we can make reasonable assumptions about based on some of those previous criteria.
With our specific senario:
We are not young players, we have been around for years. We've spent -months- working very, very hard, to take and maintain those null sec systems. It has been a -major- effort to keep a coalition of hundreds of pilots together, put out drama fires nearly daily, FC hundreds of people (or cat-herding as I like to call it), in order to achieve our goals. I absolutely feel we've 'earned' our leeway on some RP, and a few things are justified:
If our name is on the tickers, it's our systems. If we have built all the infrastructure, built our own stations, maintain dozens of structures, and operate hundreds of capsuleers in the area, it is extremely reasonable to assume the planets below are -completely- under our thumb. CONCORD does not exist out here to protect the populace. Lawless, unrestricted space. If we are nice freedom loving types, we would have set up a little utopia of free societies on each of them. We are the bad guys, and hence the gnashing of teeth and hearing the lamentations of the locals as we plunder, convert, and bend to our collective wills, etc.
I am -extremely- careful to never make claims against others I cannot back-up reasonably, and I think most of you, like me or not, can vouch for me over the years.
I'm not trying to sound like a jerk, but my guys have worked extremely hard for months on end to get where we are, and I absolutely want to reflect that RP-wise.
I would love opinions, criticisms, etc so please have at it and let's talk about this.