Well, I wont advise you against taking candy from strange Amarrian men, then.
I see you've met certain well dressed men, they offer fun kinds of candy. Give the Sansha hugs, they're just misunderstood.
Cookies be thar *Points* and we have tea, coffe and other st00f available. I'd also suggest visiting the mountain of Crash whilst you're here.
Welcome and enjoy your stay. Please send your 100mil ISK bridge toll to the Character 'Dossie Kielle'.