Both the Minmatar and Amarr have struck me as intensely hard to roleplay, which originally I though was merely my personal distaste for portraying (though not seeing portrayed) characters from those backgrounds. However, it seems that time and time again the pressure of fighting against the broad strokes of stereotype and 'bad fic' related to the two is the main contributing factor. It is similar to a discussion with an in game friend regarding perceived 'State roleplayer unity versus Federation fractiousness', the fiction suggests that despite internal pressure the State is collectivist, and thus people who like the idea of collectivism gather under the banner to rp. This is not to say it is universally true, but it was an interesting point of conversation. Essentially, people enter racial/national rp pre-configured by what they have read, for better or ill.
Now I am DEFINITELY not saying 'go State' - god knows that just turning around and throwing a template over your years of hardwork would be patronising at best, outright insulting at worst. What I am saying is that all of us should look at the divisions within our racial/national roleplay basis and try to see why so many are content to form tiny groups with minimal growth (SKADI being the exception with it;s desire for growth). RP in isolation feels safe, primarily. Listening to the IGS, this fine forum and even The Summit gives a false flag for the identification of legitimate, active roleplaying groups beyond 'we post words'.
There is a seething underbelly of closet roleplayers that Veikitamo has tapped into on our end, and I'd love to see SKADI potentially tap the same source, though they need handling with kid gloves as they grow into their own characters. The main question here is, do you as the player wish to engage in the effort? I can tell you now I do not, and that is why I am glad and proud to count myself as a member of a corp with Veik and Desi to tirelessly populate it. EvE is a trying game, burn out is often inevitable if temporary and the community is simultaneously the best and worst there is. You clearly have high standards and I would urge you to never let go of them, they have been forged by previous actions you have taken exception to and those lessons will serve you well in avoiding future drama-harvest occurring with your brand too close to the fallout to avoid attention despite being innocent.
I will close on the issue I found difficult when writing this post, I do not know you awfully well. We have a lot of area of residence, rough age, gender, political alignment info going around in OOC, but it is very difficult to advise a personal, enjoyable fictitious experience when the mind of the other person is unknowable due to 'lolinternet'. I do hope that I have helped in some way, and would welcome further discussion.