Good points again Lyn!
It just sometimes feels from this side of the Atlantic, and perhaps not understanding the ethnic histories and complexities, that many european countries do not handle immigrants/assimilation/ethnic tension very well. We have the perhaps uninformed opinion that every ten or twenty years one Balkan country is exploding civilians in another one for being the wrong religion, or that the Italians are sending back boatloads of refugees to drown, or the French and Germans and Nordic countries can be terribly cruel to Mediterranean and African immigrants and refugees, along with what would appear from here to be far-right nationalist parties getting legislative seats in many countries?
Granted we are currently setting an awful example on our own Southern border , but we've overall got a pretty good history of 'melting pot' culture....or at least only persecuting each minority for a few generations until a new racial group replaces them... :/
Anyway, love the topic and thread
Well, if you speak about non EU countries in Europe (including Turkey), that's true that it might be a little different then. There was war in the balkans not so long ago, and even though it has settled now, I wouldn't believe that everything is fine and tensions vanished, but to me that's mostly local, internal conflict, at best. Also, Croatia entered the EU the last year, and other countries are still applying (like Bulgaria iirc ?) so... Although yes, Turkey, which may be a member of NATO and being a big player, at least militarily, in Europe, might still see its application to the EU delayed a lot considering the recent events... lol.
Most countries do not handle immigration very well. They can do it for a tiny bit when it's voluntarily opened to immigrants, like it was in the 60-70s, but now... You have to understand that the Mediterranean sea is somewhat similar to the border between the US and Mexico, and currently more than ever. The spanish enclave in North Africa is literally assaulted by refugees and immigrants from all Africa. They recently built 3 more walls and increased them from 3m to 9m heigh. Italy has been calling for help at the EU parliament for months now because they just admitted that it has got completely out of their control and are just overwhelmed. And most EU countries play the ostriches for now because they either are part of the south countries, that are the ones witnessing the crisis at its fullest and so have other things to deal with (like their own immigrants), or because they don't really care, like France and Germany which are supposed to be the pillars of the EU. And i'm not even speaking about the UK that doesn't care much for anything else except that them too have to deal with a fuckload of immigrants. Then you have also immigration in Greece, a country that is completely bankrupted, and that is seeing massive influx of refugees from Syria coming through either the Aegea sea, where sea patrols got highly intensified, or through the Turkey border, that also got recently blocked. So now they go around and pass through non EU countries like Bulgaria and end up in countries that are not prepared to deal with them.
Also, no, Italians are not sending back boatloads of refugees to drown. They actually drown when coming in with boats and crappy rafts loaded with twice their normal load. So Italy launched operation Mare Nostrum, one among many initiative, to actually try to save as many as they can, but they come from everywhere, at day, at night, and make sure they try to avoid being detected, because yes, eventually, it means ending up in refugee camps or more generally being sent back from where they come. And Europe is trying more and more to close its borders to that kind of things because it just becomes untenable for the south.
Being cruel to immigrants ? Well, not more than anywhere else I guess... Not that I heard of. We just try to send them back into their countries, but the problem is the discrepencies in how it's done. Some can still spend dozen of years on european soil, without any papers, with their families and children at school and suddenly been sent back. Which is completely wtf / nuts. And maybe that's when it tends to turn cruel and insensible. The real, true problem, is that all these immigrants can actually pass through the net. It becomes obnoxious for everyone, either the locals or themselves which just end up living in misery (which can still be better than where they come from...).
As for the metling pot culture, it generally happens in most cultural big cities, like New York, etc, I believe. Working myself in Paris, it's indeed a fucking huge melting pot. And now we are in summer I only hear people speak in foreign languages everywhere... And just generally fucking weird people and demented artists everywhere, but I digress... Should be the same in the US, if not more in certain places ? But go on the countryside and go ask a redneck what they think of melting pot and multi culti...
But unlike America, the number of cultures in Europe is thousand times higher and diverse thanks to older history and we unfortunately don't have only one south border to cover., all of that with conflicts nearby either in Africa (what happens there is just insane, go look up genocides and people being forced to eat their friends alive, or refugee camps in Kenya, while we only hear of Syria, Palestine and Ukraine, which are almost "soft" conflicts in comparison), middle East or Ukraine.
the EU gets into trouble, then it's in my opinion because Germany tries to strongman the other members into following it's lead.
That's already a strong feeling, yes, especially in southern EU member states that try to follow to the letter predicaments made by Germany.