I was never torn apart.
For the record, Ari despite her Amarrian politeneness - IS AMARRIAN. And worse, Dark Amarr. I spent months with people unsure of what to make of Arista. I didn't get to burst into the scene and yell opinions I could not back up with experience - in space or in RP interaction. EVE RP moves at a minute a minute.
"When you kill a thousand baseliners a day, it costs nothing to be polite". Its a common stated phrase. Sure there are going to be people who speak out -- but 90% of the time they are people speaking from positions on in-game backup ability.
That, perhaps, is the hard part for people to see - esp[ecially new players such as the OP.
the OP had issues cause they bashed heads with members of AP - a WELL established wormhole corporation - not one or two people living in a make pretend wormhole that no one else gives a fuck about. They fight every day to keep their space. So their IC attitudes will reflect this, as in game actions ARE IC.
Is Tibby and the TS-F memebers a pack of meanies? They're a pirate corporation that eats people for breakfast. They ALSO fight for their space -- and not just from rolep[layers willing to fly and fight the Ebil Sansha Loyalists.
The list goes on.
EVERYONE, without fail, who talks smack, and can not back it up in space, is smacked verbally with the ultimate intent to encourage these people to literally undock and bring it. This is EVE. Can I capitalise EVE more? THIS IS EVE. EVE is not an RP environment where we're all killing the same Raidbosses every week.
We ARE the raidbosses. Or the dungeon trash. Take your pick.
Though there ARE "pure RP" encounters, they are EVE's exception - not its rule.
(in a fucking shit mood. Yay RL.)