If I remember correctly we have already had countless discussions around godmodding, and what people consider to be rude or bad form in the context of "/me beheads Aldrith with an axe" vs "/me tries to behead Aldrith with an axe", and how to talk OOCly while doing so with someone you are not used to RP on a regular basis.
In such a light, in the case of spying and corp infiltrations, why is it suddenly ok between RPers not to let the choice to the other party ? Because they will never agree ? But then, if they do not agree to be stolen incredible amounts of time and money, isn't it similar to when they do not agree that their characters to be biomassed/raped/whatever suits you ?
Following the same reasoning, isn't corp infiltration and betrayal like godmodding, since it forces your IC way upon others' ?
Not sure yet of the answer, but that's the questions i'm considering atm.
If there are hurt feelings involved, thats understandable. But there are hurt feelings in anything PVP related.
If one is hurt by pvp, then he can choose to do something else.
If one is hurt by OOC betrayals, he can choose to play the asocial and remain in his one man corp.
Not sure if both are comparable ?
If the thing you're planning to do is something you wouldn't mention to other characters, then it's IC. If the thing you're planning to do has to be kept secret from other players? It's OOC.
This kind of brings up something I discussed in my first post.
If I am planning to invade some RPer's territory, or gank their next supply convoy - is that something I'd mention OOC to them? "Hey FYI guys, just gonna have fun shooting you up in a couple minutes, even though you didn't know!" No, it really isn't. Are my actions now "OOC"? Even if performing those same actions makes absolute perfect sense in character?
Not comparable either I think. In your case you do not need to talk to your enemies OOCly. In the case of an infiltrated spy, he has to, unless it's full immersionist corp where OOC is strictly forbidden.