I like it. Why strive to fit into a community that you don't like? Do your own RP thing with your own friends It's what I do.
It's basically what everyone does. The myth that we are all some huge mono-group is false: everyone RP's different groups and factions and ideas and no-one who even RP as part of any one identified party do so in the same way. The one and only common identifier is that everyone that RP do indeed RP. It's not our job to tell anyone with the widely distributed RP-sticker that they can/can't do X Y Z, but if people do things that cause us to face-palm allot, we can, utilizing our right to free speech, tell them this.
How we do so is up to us. It would likely be preffered if we managed to be a little bit civil about it at least, but every individual can decide if they even bother. Likewise everyone who does RP can chose for themselves how they do so and as part of what group, if any. Seeking advice and clarification on the unknown/unclear bits is also considered a smart move - why make a bunch of common errors if it's avoidable by asking others who may be wise from previous injury already? People already do that for EVE in general, and any other game/job/position/thing you can imagine anywhere else.
The monolithic community is a myth, an unconfirmed rumor. There is only RP'ers, what and who they RP, and everyone else who RP at all, and the interaction, if any, between them. As an example, me and my toon does sparsely little interaction these days, but I'm still as much a RP'er as the most involved person and toon with the biggest social web you can get.
Creating 'your own' community is impossible. All you can do is RP as you want with the people you want, depending on who you end up RP'ing with in what way, good, bad, indifferent, depends on what form you little 'community inside the community' holds.