I think the major issue for me right now with Veikitamo in playing her is that she seems very much to have become an Executive in her High Tower. This is probably due to a couple of factors but the main one for me seems to be the fact that due to her predilection to wearing social masks and facades she seems to have the ability to have people see whatever they want in her. This, combined with a consensus of people I've asked about the character telling me she's something along the lines of an, "Intimidating Caldari Ice Queen," means very few seem willing to interact with her privately and the fact that that the woman's preferences in discussion are rarefied along intellectual lines such as business, politics, culture, philosophy and history means she has very little interest in engaging with the majority of capsuleers as she sees them.
I certainly can't change her now to satisfy my desire to interact/RP with others because in trying create a character along the paradigm of, "Typical Deteis Executive", Veikitamo remains emblematic to me of the type of Caldari who in being well versed in knowing how to wield power and authority often become lonely and distant figures seen from afar because the vagaries of command, duty, and responsibility means very few are permitted into their inner circle of trust in order to know and understand them on an personal or intimate level.
I guess it's a bit of a double edged sword for me, because I personally find Veik a complex and interesting character to play even if it sometimes means being a bit of pariah due to her personality. I suppose in the end if people interacting with her think, "Well, that's exactly how I'd see a Caldari company woman to behave," then it's fine by me, even if she has very few people she'd consider friends.