As to the getting killed to enter the pod thing. Why would anyone who is completely against the idea of cloning become a podder in the first place?
Capsuleering has existed for over a century now. Of that, only in the last decade has it included cloning as part of the mix. Cloning is not integral to being a capsuleer, and the only reason it's such a widespread part of the program now is because it's been mandated by CONCORD. If there was an option to not use clones, I'd expect some capsuleers (especially Amarr) would take it.
Also, what Esna said. Just because cloning is part of the mix, doesn't mean you have to treat it as something guaranteed to happen, or unavoidable. Death is part of the mix for many dangerous jobs, such as the military, that doesn't keep people from signing up for it anyway. And you probably have
less chance of dying as a capsuleer than you would as an independent bridge captain--that's why they've been training capsuleers for as long as they have, afterall. They have superior performance, massively reduced cost, and greatly expanded ship capabilities (freeing up all that crew space for additional weapons, cargo, defensive systems, etc).
Capsuleering is a superior life choice, with or without cloning.