It's less the fraternization and more my having a hard time loading enough handwavium ammunition to believe some of these people would have ever made it through capsuleer training, or ever be entrusted with more than a nerf bat as a weapon.
Sometimes the behavior makes me think some people wouldn't have clearance to park a short bus let alone some of the most dangerous equipment in the cluster.
Well, maybe that's why they turn us loose as unaligned, independent capsuleers and let CONCORD deal with us.
What I mean: Each of the factions keeps their own capsuleers. Presumably, these are taken from the military and the most loyal to their faction. They keep the best and the brightest for themselves. Then they take the rest of us and say "well, I'm sure we can pay them to do useful stuff for us."
Actually, following that logic, I could almost make a YDIW case for anyone highly devoted to their faction: [please note that I'm not saying this, it's just an interesting line of thought] [spoiler]If you're so devoted, why didn't they keep you? If you're so dedicated to your cause, how'd you end up an independent contractor like the rest of us? [/spoiler]
That could actually lead to some hilarity IC. Start musing on possible explanations ranging from incompentence to heresy.
Anyhow.
Worked that one out years ago, it's actually absurdly simple:
The choice was between service however the nation that spawned you dictated, or service or not, at your discretion.
A) Join the Navy, be an elite AF pilot, upgrade to HAC's in a bit, eventually ending up with, say, all T2/T1/T3 certificates available in a decade or two, still doing EXACTLY what the navy tells you, when they tell you, IF they need you. Could work.
B) Alternatively, as my toon chose, (snd presumably all other toons who are ever made by players chose) go "independent" and work on supporting the nation in question at your own pace, by your own means, all the while rolling eyes at the 'demigods' and 'uber-humans' roaming around with their heads full of self-inflicted lies and egos on their sleeves for all to see. You may not be "officially" aligned with the faction of your choice, but you do your part, in your ways. *IF* you really want to.
Or you try at least. One of the negatives of not being enrolled in the Navy for instance is, you have to fund your own gear...
So far it's worked great, even with a bit of IC thoughts along the lines of YDIW for all the ones who fail to keep up to your own lofty standard... but then again, that means you have the operative freedom to deal with them, no?