As someone whose first RP character was a horific god-moding mary sue, and has since been largely reformed/retconned/etc, I can see both sides to this. There is a great deal of logic to saying that it doesn't make sense for capsuleers to be getting their hands dirty. And it's always distasteful when someone tries to god mode and set off a bomb in a bar.
On the other hand, EVE is a big universe. If we decide to fall too hard on the side of "you can't do it if the game doesn't let you," we miss out. I can think of one or two players off the top of my head that take that attitude, and I understand and accept it entirely, but I think I'd rather be able to walk into a bar and enjoy a drink with corpies, etc.
Then we go in the other direction - outside of flying ships, we are limited purely to text-based RP. That is simultaneously limiting and freeing. It means we can do literally whatever the fuck we want. It also means that there is no agreed upon way to resolve conflict - the purpose of dice rolling in RPG systems. We can't play D&D, so we're more like the kids on the playground yelling "Bang! You're dead!" "No I'm not, you missed!"
So for most people, the solution is to avoid conflict. Talk, dance, have a drink, argue, etc, but avoid any physical conflict. Makes perfect sense.
And for some people, we don't want that. We like conflict, we like to fight, and if we're using free-form, text-based RP, why the fuck not? It simply requires that things be consentual, and for more complex interactions will require OOC communication. One of the first fights Stecker got into could aptly be described as "Clash of the Godmoders," and thinking back on it now is both nostalgic and embarrassing. On the other hand, more recently (as in, only two years ago instead of three) she had a sparring match with Raxip, her genetic enhancement against his cybernetic. During the IC bout, we were chatting OOC about what each character was about to do to make sure we agreed and it made sense to both of us. I had a blast.
If you don't enjoy that, or don't think it's appropriate, or just don't want to be involved, that's fine. Feel free to look down on people who try to godmode you into a fight, etc.
Please avoid applying the same disdain to people who simply enjoy a good scrap.
[As an aside, some of the posts in this thread are pushing the "ur doin it rong" line. Please be mindful of that, even if it's what you truly believe.]