I'm still travelling, and not following the response in detail.
-- I hear there was a YouTube clip, since taken down, possibly from early this year, where The Mittani tells the Goons that at this year's alliance panel he will talk about the different sectors of the EVE community, and why Goons hate them, and why they should kill themselves. Did any of you hear this while it was public? Any comments on the summary I've heard of what was said?
-- I've been thinking a bit about "tears" lately.[1] The griefing game-style may have its primary active expression in-game, but the tears it seeks are "real", resulting from real upset caused to other players. When we've received flak from morally-driven NRDS groups for not taking our NRDS seriously enough it's been because (I summarise) piracy and griefing are real problems with real victims, while slavery is a make-believe problem that's all in our fantasy world. (I can see that this view is internally consistent, but also that those who hold it are playing a different game to the game I'm playing.)
EVE is also a game which has significant meta-play. At Fanfest I found myself several times mentioning the metagame in contexts where I hadn't previously realised how deeply I accepted and expected that there'd be meta-play, so this is exercising my thinking now.
Boundaries get blurred, especially when griefer rhetoric is involved, amping up the emotional response by using loaded language. Inciting people to do things in-game to cause upset and induce tears and rage is pretty much part of the game for certain sections of the EVE community. At what point does that go too far and cause not "just" tears and rage but violence and self-harm? Are people who play griefer-style aware of this possibility or--one of the concerning prospects to arise from this brouhaha--would their response to an actual griefer-induced suicide be that the person was obviously lame, broken, and shouldn't have been playing in the same game/gene-pool?
I'm basically an ethical pragmatist on this one: Alex Gianturco did something stupid and there need to be consequences in order to preserve the game for the rest of us. But I am strongly aware that I don't recruit to the game and I'm cautious about some of the ways I play because it can be a brutal environment out there: I can make the choice for myself, but I wouldn't recommend it to most of the people in my real life. So when some in-game friends are making this the issue on which they make their stand about acceptable behaviour in the EVE community, I can't say I blame them. Some others seem shocked and bewildered that something they don't see as particularly serious griefing is having such effects... and that's bugging me a bit. I don't believe intention is a fully mitigating factor when the "crime" is incitement: you don't get away with saying "but I didn't think anyone would take me seriously when I said people should firebomb the ragheads". How much of this is about "private" speech--where the rhetoric of griefing people to suicide might, maybe, be just a rousing speech to the troops--being spread into the public domain, where it has "normal" meanings and significances?
There's quite a bit of thinking aloud here, so this isn't at my usual level of polish. Thorny issues.
[1] OOG as well as IG, actually: I have no appreciable tear meniscus and now need to resort to artificial tears, which is a metaphor in waiting.