Because of the concept of NPC capsuleers, players are thus free to be considered the "minority": the 20% or fewer of capsuleers who choose to follow their own paths, rather than what their government leaders might wish. All the indoctrination in the world won't change an individual who doesn't agree with it; they may put up with the crap simply to get what they want
before saying, "Sayonara, sucka's!".
This is pretty much the way I see it.
We're the rebellious few, the vast majority of eggers are success stories for the empires and go on to become corporate CEO's, diplomats, military brass and famous faces.
The rest of us are the ones who take the training, the investment, and then at the end of it turn around and say "well, thanks for all the fish, but I'm gonna go independent".
It's kind of like the situation we have with on the job skill based training in the UK. I'll use my self as an example :
I was hired by a very well known car manufacturer directly out of school at the age of 15. They put me through college for two years and I didn't have to pay a penny. They then put me through university to degree level. I didn't pay a penny toward tuition. The government hands out massive grants to companies and corporations to train people as apprentices and give them a trade, to secure the future of British industry.
When my 5 years was up, I was offered an employment contract as a full fledged Electrical & Robotic Engineer, rather than as a trainee. I declined and parted ways with the company to seek fresher pastures. I didn't owe them jack shit.
It was only when I went independent, moved to another company and pushed more education under my belt that wasn't covered by my apprenticeship that I started to pay my own school fees and discovered the wonders of student debt.
It's the same with our armed forces, you sign up and you're fed, clothed (for the best part) and trained for your duration of service. That's just the way it is.
I see being a capsuleer kind of like being an apprentice, but with special entry conditions. You have to be genetically sound for it, you have to have the correct level of mental aptitude and strength, and you have to be able to survive the training. You train long and hard, everything is provided and in the end you become a qualified capsuleer (which is displayed, in essence by what our rookie characters are).
From there, unless you commit to your chosen faction full time (that decision is already made for us on character creation), you're released and on your own, hence having to pay for your own skill books, hulls and everything else.
Fair enough, some eggers choose to join the militias, or work as independent contractors to Navies or Megacorporations, but that's all it is. It's a contract, a job, they're providing themselves as a tool, as a means to an end and being paid for it. It's just like being in employment.
Whereas the other vast majority of eggers, the NPC leaders we hear about, are still bound to their corporation and faction.
I mean, there's no saying that a player egger didn't serve at the Republic Military School at the same time as Malaetu Shakor, or Study at the University of Caille at the same time as Joroutte Duvolle. They just chose to take different paths, and ended up in different places in the end.
Personally, I don't see a character's race as anything more than signifying where they were born, or where their family originates from.