The overarching issue as I see it is that while there are some aspects of cultures that are considered alien to each other, the most obvious ones that really identify them are largely unrecognized. As an Westerner, I could fly over to the Middle East, and suddenly find myself in a nearly foreign culture with very little in common to my own, but what is the first thing that separates us? Language. Styles of dress, religion, courting behavior, personal outlook; none of this is largely visible between capsuleers and we are largely forced to input our own interpretation. And while this may be the fault of CCP or its playerbase for not putting enough thought into this, text is sometimes a limiting factor in distinguishing these things.
Another point to consider is that Capsuleers are a culture unto their own, with their own customs, laws, moral boundaries, and styles of behavior that depart from their places of origin. We even share a language (mostly!). We see this in our own society with the extremely wealthy, who are often deemed eccentric for their interests and odd belief system. There is a whole different mindset for elites that amass wealth greater than the GDP of entire solar systems, so it stands to reason that when freed from the constraints of their past lives perspective on the world around them changes. Imagine being a powerful freelance mercenary who was in demand by every country in the world to fight proxy wars and do the dirty jobs that the formal military are unable to do due to political considerations, and you made billions of <insert your currency here> in the process, and earned the respect and consideration of these factions. Sure, there might be some people that are indebted to their home country, but many people, for the right price and motivation, will do just about anything to anyone. Everyone has a price.
Quality point as always. I suppose it brings up the idea of "starship pilot or capsuleer"? Perhaps the capsule is just your work's hard hat. You slip into it to do your job, but you don't base your life around it. If Seriphyn sees himself as a pilot, and not a capsuleer, then his perspective might make sense.
Playing the norm for a culture can be a lot of fun. You get to develop context about what life's like when you' re part of a developed and rounded community, and if you play with others who also play the norms you get to share and re-use and worldbuild together.
Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes and yes! I absolutely LOVE doing this, particularly integrating Gallente lifestyle technology into everyday, mundane tasks (drones to help make breakfast, a bunch of holo-billboards suddenly materializing over a forming traffic jam outside). With Minmatar, you might integrate a different cultural aspect into mundane living (maybe not technology). Unfortunately, Gallente RPers with this sort of focus are in high demand; not everyone has the same level of creative ability, and not everyone RPs for the same reasons, so...
On a side note, without too much digression, the purpose of Anette is to balance my roleplaying out as a member of the EVE RP community with the other side of the Gallente coin, with regards to arts, entertainment, pursuit of dreams, and so forth. Someone said to me last night that Anette is able to outclass 75% of those plugged into the Summit on an intellectual level while still believably acting like an 11-year old. However, not everyone has the patience for child-characters, as believable as they might be, or feel they have a place in the grimdark EVE universe. Otherwise, I would very much be interested in using her to explore the softer side of the Gallente. I could just go "fuck da pohlees" and do it anyway, if people would welcome that. The point is, is that even at 11, she wields the same sort of influence/wealth as a starting capsuleer (maybe), so it throws her into the same league of "society's elite" as capsuleers/pilots.
After all, the public sphere (emphasis on public) of Gallente society, across chrons and other PF, isn't exactly grimdark compared to other factions. Giant crystalline cities, pop stars with futuristic stageshows, domestic automation. So the presence of Anette isn't exactly violating anything.
And urgh, digression
I might make a separate topic for her and related ideas.