A little more explenation for those not up on the situation for those who didn't see it:
The player of the one of the two targets who objected, hereafter refered to "target player". Disclaimer: My statements about target player are entirely based on my interpretation of statements she made; I'm not presuming to speak for her.
Now, target player is someone who evidently does not like PvP situations. She is a player who evidently (based on comments she made) likes to mission in highsec. For this reason, she had not joined an immersive RP corp, nor had she sought IC conflict. Months ago, target player had done something in the formation of her character that she did not regard as something that would result in her getting mercs hired on her. Frankly, I wouldn't have regarded it as such either.
Tonight, this player was surprised to discover that this something which she had done in the past was going to get mercs on her. She became upset because she did not feel she could play EVE if she was being constantly hunted by mercs. Furthermore, she has made comments which suggest she is willing to accept IC consequences and allow her character to be hurt or killed; she just doesn't want this to happen in space, which she views as OOC unless agreed upon, while Mizh, based on what was said in her post, regards space as constantly IC.
Before we go any further, I'd like to state that I don't think either is "right" or "wrong". RP is a personal choice - some choose to join RP corps where corp chat is in character, others go to RP corps where IC is kept to other, player-made channels, and some go to corps with no other RPers. An example of the last is myself - I prefer not to go into "deeper" levels of immersion, such as regarding space as always IC, because at the end of the day I am a 0.0 PvPer and wish to do this largely unimpeded. My way is no more "right" than anyone else's.
In my opinion, the real question here is, "Is it more important to be respectful of other players' views on their levels of RP immersion, or to maintain my level of immersion at all costs because it is what I choose."
A lot of people have said "Well, that doesn't make EVE any more than MSN with fancy graphics" or some version of the above. Regardless of whether this is actually true, the question still remains: If someone wants to play MSN with fancy graphics, and I want more, should I force them to obey my level of immersion?
EDIT: While I was writing my walloftext, it seems Kazzzi got here first.
Mizhara, it sounds like they are trying to invoke rule 2 on you. I suggest calling shenanigans to nullify their claim.
But seriously, anytime somebody takes an RP stance on anything, they open themselves up to consequences.
By the same token, you open yourself up to consequences when you present consequences to others.
Said person isn't averse to IC consquences. She doesn't regard space as IC, though - so should she be forced to regard it as such?