Zuzuzuzuzuzuzu! *Fluffles* Good to see you again!
On the topic of having time... yeah. It's definitely an issue.
I will make three suggestions, though -
1, hook on to someone else's project/group. I know that may feel like a cop-out or something, but really it isn't - and :RL: is as good a reason as you could ask for.
2, delegate, delegate, delegate. Handling everything yourself is just stressful; if you start a new project and need something written, for example, be prepared to hand it off to someone else to write so you don't have to be doing every part of it.
3, set reasonable goals. And remember that reasonable =/= hopeful. I've run into this one before, and had to scale back the size and date of a project I wanted to do because I was oversetting goals for the amount of time I had available.