I'm a little unconvinced about the utility and tastefulness of equating relatively recent RL events with fictional in-game ones. In particular, there's so many differences in circumstances and background and surrounding culture that I think it's a bad analogy.
The world of EVE is a much bloodier one than ours, and I would suspect that our characters are more hardened to war and bloodshed than many of the players (self certainly included!). The tides of invasion, occupation and revolt are ones that wash over many many people in EVE, and that can't help but affect outlook.
Having said that, the Malkalen Incident and the occupation of Luminaire VII were, from my understanding, events that sent shockwaves far and wide. I don't think it's necessary to draw exact comparisons for people to find incidents in their own experience that have similar impacts, if not in exactly analogous situations.