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[Havohej]

I dunno about you folks, but I'm just going to stay out of actual human interactions and keep looking at furry pregnant macro jumbo-jet porn.

[Havohej]

@Lou

I've now got 30+ pictures of my girlfriend/fiancee on my phone in varying states of undress.  She'd refused for over 6 months - I didn't tell her I was going to leave her or whatever.  And my phone is set to NOT automatically backup my photos to google cloud OR dropbox (both of which are on my android phone).  So the pictures are safe, now that they exist, for the viewing pleasure of myself alone.  And she was at no risk or pressure of "I'll go somewhere else lol" when she was not comfortable with posing for them.

Any girl who's pressured that way by a guy needs to not be dealing with that shithead to begin with, so...  Good?

[PracticalTechnicality]

I dunno about you folks, but I'm just going to stay out of actual human interactions and keep looking at furry pregnant macro jumbo-jet porn.

http://www.distractify.netdna-cdn.com/wp-content/uploads//2014/04//gala7.jpg

*Nature Documentary Narration*

And here... We see the birth...  Of a ground support... combat aircraft.  A beautiful sight.  And one day... When it has fought its way to adolescence...  it will enter a scrap heap chrysalis... and emerge as a part of the adult of the species.

[Lyn Farel]

Women, men, transanything, children, the elderly, whoever the hell you are. You don't have to be afraid. You just have to have the most basic of rudimentary knowledge of safeguarding your privacy. Step one, don't upload your nekkid pictures.

And liek I said, you'll get called frigid, joyless, fun-hating, anti-social, a party-pooper, a bitch, and much more.

Because, you know, like, you're dumped for not being fun, gonna go out with Becky instead. Sux 2 B U, lol.

Not to put too fine a point on it, but this seems to possess a bit of an entitled attitude. You should be free from coercion and free to make whatever choices you desire, so long as they don't coerce someone else, but I don't think anyone has the right to demand that others like them. Or, for that matter, demand that someone have sex with them, or be their friend, or be around them.

I mean, I've been dumped. It sucks. Might have had something to do with being an overweight nerd at the time. Maybe I wasn't fun enough. If I were the type to say that she should have looked past that to my shining inner qualities (presuming I have any), I would be lining myself up nicely for the firing squad of women's advocates who instantly leap on any "nice guy" who "feels entitled to friendship or sex". Fortunately, I don't think that I'm entitled to the company of others.

I've been called plenty of names, too, many of which would earn my post a trip to the catacombs. Doesn't mean I'm entitled to others liking me or saying nice things about me. I've lost friends because I didn't want to do the dangerous and stupid shit they were doing. Doesn't mean I deserve friends.

Everything's a trade-off, and I don't get to demand that my wants and likes get to dictate what other's wants and likes should be. If someone gets mad because I don't want to be in their car as they drive 35 miles over the speed limit on a wet road (actual example), well, they're mad, and they may call me a sissy, but I can't tell them to like me anyway. If this ends up with me having no friends, well, I can seek out more common-sense companions, or I can learn to live alone.

I am not sure the problem is forcing people to like you but just reacting to the general behavior generated by the weight of traditions, culture and ignorance. Which is, eventually, more about respect and decency.

Values that are almost like dirty words those days.