Nationalism and patriotism is not, in my oppinion, a bad thing.
I'm proud to be Norwegian. I manage to maintain this feeling most of the time due to a variety of factors. I keep these to myself, unless the topic asks for it.
I consider myself highly patriotic. I served with pride in te army when called and fullfilled my duties faithfully. I was sad, and ashamed, when I was declared unfit for duty and sent home ahead of time. I felt like I had failed, when plenty would rejoiced and celebrated their 'freedom'. I usually keep this to myself.
There are times I consider separate issues and think to myself 'My nation is better than X Y Z in these areas, due these reasons' and I usually keep that to myself.
I'm nationalistic and patriotic like most people when the issue is pressed, but there is one thing about nationalism and patriotism that annoys and insults me. The short and simple of it is the publicity level.
If any man or woman of any nation think to themselves that, they live in the greatest nation on the planet, that's fine. That's a personal oppinion. Perhaps, it's even an analyzed and sumarized conclusion to an official investigation. It's still fine.
When, as an example, George W. B enters Air force 1 after a visit somewhere, turns around and states 'God bless America, and no-one else!', that is NOT cool. That is asking a supposed omnipotent and perfect being to offer it's blessing to one nation only, and denying that to anyone else. I'm no christian, but such a request would not seem very nice to me, being a member of one of the remaining 214 nations on the planet.
When someone writing a document
detailing their views and arguments for political and social change in America out-right states that America is the 'greatest' country on the planet, that is not cool.
When Norwegian nationals, riding high after crushing Sweden in football or whatever, state that Norway is the finest country in the world, or something similar, this is when I feel emberrased to be a part of this kingdom.
It don't matter where your from, any implication that your nation is, for whatever reason, superior to all the others also automatically states that everyone else is inferior. Thus I keep all arguments, claims, belifs and oppinions about my own nation's supposed superiority, in any way, shape or field, to myself. Unless of course, the issue is raised, or my comentary on it attracts
negative attention.Then, an explenation is in order.
TL;DR - Being patriotic isn't bad, but talking as if all nations beyond your own is sub-par is insulting to members of said nations, and should be avoided if able.