Lol.
All of you people with your "I do it for the plot" shit
Sex is because its hot. Because you are horny. Real talk we don't fantasize about being super rich immortals because we are writing philosophy books and ERP's secondary effects aren't why anyone ever does it in the moment. Lets not ruin a good thing with dancing around it. DTF means down to fuck and ERP starts with erotic, not plot. ...and its 2017. You can be an orange president or a queer trans pot grower now. So who gives a shit?
Lets do a ground rules thread and stop fucking around with acceptance and testing the waters TBQFH.
Also lol, ya'll are gay.
(pwnd?)Also, relevant to the topic:
Don't just assume what other people are into. Ask, talk about it. Fetishes and things that vary from normal vanilla man and woman sex may be normal where you are from but they aren't where everyone is from. This is rl just like walking into some random house and cursing and spouting memes and holy shit it's someone's grandmother who never even saw an ankle or heard harsh language. Or maybe she has a fucking sex dungeon, dunno.
Some people are from the Empire, some from the federation. So don't assume. Communicate. If they are an asshole about it then why did you want to hang out with them in the first place.
And as for what evi posted: two people can keep a secret if one of them is dead.