While I can't speak for every Caldari RPer, the majority of the ones I've spoken with and interacted with do not accept either Svetlana's conclusions, or yours.
One of the myths being perpetuated in Eve is that the Gallente "are western civilization", and that any other empire possessing elements of western culture is "RPing wrong".
One of the problems with trying to adapt an asian/Japanese view on the Caldari is that that view is a myth. Bushido, honor, etc, as concepts of the Japanese mindset were largely created and inflated by the pre-WW2 Japanese government. Did they exist before that? Certainly. But the perception of them as guiding lights for the culture was the result of the militarist takeover of the government.
There's also the fact that the Caldari just don't "act" Japanese, or Chinese. I'm not sure how to exactly state this, but when you examine those cultures as they are today and were in the past, there are more differences than if you compare it with, say, the United States. Indeed, in terms of values, I would argue that the State and the U.S. are still both very "survival-values" oriented, which indeed explains to some extent why both cultures, fictional and real, are very militant and very focused on economic power.
*Interesting side-note*
Some of those who see the United States as being similar to Western Europe are genuinely mistaken: they see Hollywood and our loudmouths, without understanding that 75% of the rest of us think that we should export those people. It's also true that ten or twelve states are much more "european" in value-sets than the other 38. But if one discards the media presence and actually spends time with the people in the country, one comes to the realization that the average U.S. citizen is nowhere close, culturally, to most europeans. In my personal experience, we're far more aggressive, industrious (to the point of killing ourselves), and economically motivated. Oh, and far more uniform - I should know, when I goth up, I get a lot of comments.
Of course, these are general observations.
*End side-note*
Now, this isn't to say that the United States equals the State. What I'm trying to point out here are two different facts: first, that you can't lump all western cultures together, as some of them are radically different, and second, that the State and its values are much closer to those of the mainstream U.S. than any other country, including fictionalized Japan.
As an experiment some time, try turning on Rush Limbaugh some time. Substitute "Gallente" for "Liberal", and you can easily imagine him as a Lai Dai media personality. Or imagine, say, Bones, with Brennan as a Deteis and Booth as a Civire (fits, doesn't it?) doing investigations for Ishukone Watch. Or "House"...a show that constantly emphasizes solutions and efficiency over being "nice". Indeed, if you examine most elements of
successful American television dramas or movies, almost all seem to have reoccurring themes of diligence being rewarded, of sacrifice by the individual for the whole, of being "good" rather than being "nice", of competition, etc.
These values hearken back to the origin of the country as groups of people escaping from hostile or incompetent regimes into an untamed wilderness, where one wrong move could result in not only your own death, but that of your entire group. (Look up the Donner party. Do it!) The struggle to survive after leaving everything you've known imprinted itself deeply on our national psyche, and to this day that perception continues to be reinforced by continuing immigration. So, when I look for examples on how a futuristic capitalistic "survival-values" culture might act, I tend to look at my own capitalistic "survival values" culture.
It's interesting to note, in ending, that both cultures are having a bit of a problem where this mind-set isn't serving them perfectly. The U.S. is discovering that it may actually
need to
not utilize survival values in foreign relations, and at home we have a debate raging about how we balance those values with more egalitarian views. The State experienced trouble at home and abroad, and like the U.S., decided to utilize violence as a means of solving the situation. Now, for both nations, doing so isn't necessarily wrong, but sometimes it's the less effective option. As a result, both entities are experiencing internal turmoil and debate over the courses of action they've taken.