On the contrary, Scagga...I read the entire thread before I posted at all.
I read you posts and I understand where you're coming from. What I don't understand is why it has to become this big of a deal?
The issue is compounded when replies from moderators are consistently defensive, discompassionate and do not display an attitude that they want to be helpful to the users and find a solution. Why can't they acknowledge that things could be done better and they will work to do so in the future? Why can't they show respect to posters? - it's no effort on their part to be kind to someone who has reasons to feel wronged and just replace their post. Why do they have to be so rigid and bureaucratic about it? (properly follow proper protocols...)
The staff seem to just want to stand by their actions and tell the person complaining 'well we did everything right because we can quote xyz rule/protocol and you should just do pqrs'. This betrays the fact that little thought went in to moderating, which is a delicate task and must be done in a consciencious, consistent manner. Posts in this thread reveal that other members of the community get better treatment, and there are complaints about consistency in moderation. Why are they taking the same steps as chatsubo did? These things piss me off far more than the issue itself. Backstage is grossly underperforming and my intention is to improve it. Moderators aren't selfless white knights, I'm confident that people would rise to the opportunity if an opening was made - I know I would.
Sure, the moderators could've sent you a PM and said "please change this post" meanwhile it remains on the boards for people to respond to until you have a chance to get the message and edit the post. You could counter argue and say that they could've just gotten rid of the first inappropriate comment and let you edit yours later, but the fact remains that they chose this particular course of action in order to avoid a long(er) discussion in relation to the moderated post.
Please, take a moment to think about it in context. How potentially damaging was the content that they wanted removed? Did I post somethign vile, pornographic, forum-breaking? How necessary was it to bin the post? Should moderation be so aggressive? Is it worth pissing someone off by binning their whole post on a whim without contacting them?
I put it to you a second time - if I hadn't rechecked the thread, I would have never known my post had been removed. That in itself is poor moderation, especially because the moderator in question admitted there was nothing inappropriate with my post.
You could easily have just copy and pasted what you wrote and reposted it and been done in all of about two minutes with no issue. There's no reason to keep going on about it. The moderator has already answered your challenge and told you why they made their decision and what could be done about it.
The answers are unsatisfactory, as you can see from the replies I am giving. Just because they reply to my complaint doesn't mean they have actually made good points.
You confuse me with your logic. Let me put it to you like this - someone steals something from you of little value. You can replace it, so the fact that someone steals something of small value from you is ok. I'm arguing about a principle, not about the quantity of damage done.
What the moderator in question has done is wrong, and that is why this thread is here. If they can't explain why they aren't wrong in a cogent manner, then I will press the issue. It isn't just about this scenario. I have been quietly facepalming to myself about so many moderator decisions...I'm just fed up.
If you want to continue making the point that they could've handled the situation better by sending you a PM, that's fine. I can agree with that. I simply don't agree that continuing to make a giant deal out of it like this is constructive or necessary.
If the moderators replied to me with those words, I would have stopped long ago. If the moderator had said, 'yeah, I could have done that better, next time I'll pm you. Sorry for pissing you off', I'd have been more than satisfied. Can you see that tone anywhere?