What I like: Ideology conflict. A different worldview of what makes the cluster spin by varying parties that disagree causing good character altering discussion/debate(IC). Violence over ideology isn't my preferred reason for violence, would like to keep the violence segregated to the 'business' side of EVE for Inara.
What I actually face: Ideology conflict that others tend to instantly escalate to Power conflict. Inara's worldview is not a common one, and many have turned to violence because they disagree with her... which is okay too, because watching their ships ASPLODE is sometimes satisfying. It doesn't help that Inara is irritatingly polite (most of the time), and won't raise her voice, preferring to talk to someone who disagrees with her like she's talking to a child that needs to understand. And Power conflict has always gone in my favor... so far.
As for Soap, well I enjoy a little of it mixed in, but usually as more the lubrication between the joints of the Ideology and Power conflicts. Constantly present, but not the focus of the situation.