Many players enjoy the spy game at different levels, whether as observers, spies, counter-intel, and similar roles.
Until we come to the ensuing drama when the infiltration results eventually occur, when the victim is usually not really enjoying that environnement. A lot of people litterally wank themselves over drama llamas threadwagons, but rarely the victim.
You did not even try to speak with the people of AM afterwise, did you ? Or you just did not care of their feelings ? Not to add the whole smacking and chestbeating we had to face after, and even if we may argue that this is RP, it is again the whole point of my "uneasyness" when we start to mix infiltration with RP. Reading a lot of people (that were not even the authors of the sabotage), it sounded more like a big OOC taunt and childish mockery glued into an IC coating.
On the contrary, I spoke with Yoshito quite a bit, and Kra Ra a little. Most of my other favorite people refused to speak to me again afterwards, namely Smoke. Soratah threatened to come camp my front porch with a baseball bat, so I got him banned for a month from game for that comment. v0v
For what we know of, this infiltration was not even totally RP. How could it be when Xaiah was speaking with us all OOC-ly on a regular basis ?
AM was never an IC alliance. Had it been one, I would have.
Note : I remember that myself had several good ooc(/ic) interactions with Xaiah and quite liked the player. I was a little surprised to hear what happened when Soratah announced the thing. He sounded very pissed.
Pissed is an understatement--he threatened to come attack me in real life. Someone lost track of game vs life. v0v
Yes I remember the banning.
AM was still IC on the alliance level. Not internally, yes, but on the policy and alliance level, definitly (and it was not only about RP declared wars here and there).
In any case, that does not change anything to my point, it even validates it. This is exactly the kind of gap that will often follow that kind of infiltration (be it IC or not, you will always have OOC mixed with it, period). And a gap between 2 RP entities means a gap in the community. A gap in the community leads to internal bullshit/drama/ignore/blacklist (yes im definitly not even going to try to speak to you ingame again, im not a fool, but thats sad).
You just have to look at the I-RED leak or other examples and you will see that this has always caused more or less grudges and feuds between entities, that can be more or less permanent, and hard to fix or patch up.