That's just the thing - Caldari characters invested in the situation can definitely claim the whole event was an attempt to remove the Caldari people from the face of the cluster, and nearly always when they get the chance, they do. That's to be expected, and I do expect them to do that based on their agendas and viewpoints.
The problem I'm annoyed with is that when they go "herpa, you tried to kill us all, derpa" the counter-argument seem to have died off completely in favor of "yeah we did, I'm sorry" (sad face). There is no arguing anymore. Just a claim by X that's not verified by PF, that automatically seem to be agreed on by Y, Z and all others with no opposition, even if there is fully legit opposition and debate to be had. A PF-fueled argument of unclear events has turned into a IC jab that none care to argue against.
As for the militia rank quotes, that's another annoyance I've got. Besides the whole fact that the statements of those ranks don't have to reflect what was actually done - the president quote is from the super-national fascist president, who most definitely had wet dreams of killing all Caldari - it's down-right INSULTING to me as a player that the Amarr get IC faith-based quotes and sayings, the Minmatar get inspirational, defiant sayings and remarks, the Caldari get defiant, 'we won't give in ever' statements, and the Fed gets that sad collection of super-national shit from an era of government that's considered the lowest point in the Fed's history by most PF sources and players supporting the Fed.
I mean WTF CCP? Do you honestly have so little info on one of your own fictional in-game groups you had to resort to this sad tripe for their ranks? During 100 years of war, no-one made any statements that were somewhat heroic, defensive in nature, or at least not an agressive call for mass-murder? A Caldari, Amarr or Minmatar player gets a new rank and goes "yay inspiration", a Fed player gets one and - with the sole exception of number 1 and 2 - its more "kill them all rawrrawrrawrrawr". Again, fuck you. You could have done so much better.
The ranks don't prove anything conclusive either way. The president wanted them dead, that's old news. The rest are aggressive or pathetic statements from individuals and indicate the attitude of most of the idiots in power at the time. None of them, besides the count-down timer for the bombings, indicate any actions made - ergo what was done according to the 3 war chronicles counts, the ranks give an indication for what they wanted to do.